Search Results: rushing to have sex

I am talking to this guy I met from OKC for around 2 weeks. Before we met in person, we FaceTimed and spoke on the phone for hours. When we met in person, we went on a date to a fine dining location and we discussed prior to meeting up to possibly go play video games at his pad. I say pad because he is a truck driver that recently moved from another location and is still residing in the truck. The inside looks like a tiny room. After the date, we went to this truck and relaxed. He asked to kiss me.

We ended up making out and it got pretty hot (in my opinion at least). He is not a virgin and I still am. I am not necessarily saying that I am going to wait until marriage but I wanted to know worst case scenario if he would. And he said no because he believes a partner should have sex before marriage to confirm there is a legitimate intimacy connection.

He told his mom about me and I asked him when he was going to delete his OKC profile during the date because he seemed to like me. And we both deleted our profiles together.

We hung out the next day because it was New Year’s Eve. I asked 1st because I thought he would want to do something. If I was okay relaxing, he was okay with me coming over and playing video games again.

That turned into second base for me and he wanted to go down on me but I wasn’t ready. Anytime I said stop depending on my mood or feeling, he listens and we talk. He drove over an hr to see me for the first date and said he is willing to take 2 days off a week to spend time together. He also invited me to go on a cruise with him for his birthday because he has a time share.

He says he only believes in titles when it comes time to address a woman to other people. But he said he does consider me his girlfriend because he is only seeing me and we are intimate. But he said if the title is too soon for me, there is no rush. There is no rush for sex either. Am I being played? He says I have nothing to worry about but I don’t trust men 😶.

My dad is dating his girlfriend for 2 and a half years, and she made me feel like I finally had a mom. For those who don't know, my mom remarried after coming out of the asylum because she became suicidal, why? My dad cheated and abused her. I was so happy that my dad was becoming finally loyal that I got this amazing bond with my almost stepmom, but for some strange reason he was getting mad all the time when he noticed I was getting attached to her as if she was my mother, and for a woman who lost her daughter from cancer, she finally got back that bond. Today she was on a business trip with her younger son, who's just started University, and my father was missing all day (as usually he was at work) but when he got back, he instantly started getting ready and told me that he'll be back soon. He arrived home at midnight while I was finishing a conversation on the phone, and I rushed to the kitchen because I haven't eaten anything yet, but he wouldn't let me pass because he said "I have a guest... so you better go back to your room.". I was a bit suspicious but I went back to my room with an empty stomach to read a book, twenty minutes later I could hear them having sex. And I could hear her voice, she was much younger than him or my stepmom, she must have been in her late twenties... I'm so grossed out I threw up. My dad hated my ex for cheating on me but what disgusted me more is that he is just like my ex... god I wanna vomit again. How do I deal with that crap?

He is the sweetest person I have ever been in a relationship with. He doesn’t rush anything at all, and he always asks me to make sure what he does is ok.

He has never asked me for typical things that guys do (like nudes, sex... etc). He just tells me how much he thinks I’m amazing, he helps me whenever I’m upset, and he tells me how beautiful and amazingly different I am.

He texts me every morning and night, and we text and talk for hours. He’s truly anyone’s dream guy. He would do anything for me.

I’m just confused because I’ve never had anyone say they love me before. It’s scary for me. Is it really possible that he could love me already?

If a girl you liked for a year but had not dated bc she was not ready when you asked her out, wanted to sleep next to you just to see how it felt, would you or would you feel teased or bored or just not interested (sexually mentally emotionally , whatever) ?

I like him and i'm attracted to him and i'm not against dating i just never have and don't want to rush, and I don't know if he's even interested anymore. we do spend a lot of time together he is still attracted to me so i'm wondering if he'd be ok just letting me see how it is he'd just have to lay there and sleep basically. He asked me out a year ago as in dating. He asked me to hang out casually a week ago. Could not i had work.

I recently asked him if he wanted to hang out alone next week --thinking maybe if it went ok and i got lucky he'd get comfortable it'd get late and id just stay over and we'd sleep. He was guarded and he asked me what I want but i can't tell if its bc he wants something or does not want anything. No point in bringing up dating when i don't even care too much about it atm.

What i really want si just to keep being friends but experience some things -not sex- I don't know if i should tell him bc he might take it the wrong way. not sure what way but wrong. Like that i want something i don't or i'm teasing him or it's a trick.. Im still kind of shy around him so i don't talk too much so he might feel its insincere. Or it will weird him out, I don't know. When really i'm just curious. I just have a feeling about him where i want to be near for a few hours -not thinking about convo or sex or expectations and just see how it feels.

I don't know if i should tell him or not, It is hat i 'want' burt I don't know if he'd understand. and i dint think its the answer he's expecting,

How would you react?