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little disclaimer: i'm not racist or anything and i don't think the same anymore, this is just how i thought as a kid. I don't know why


i used to think latino guys were often rapists and if they were in a white van they were child sex traffickers or rapists & would try to kidnap you. believed that until i was 11... and ik i did some weird shit to do with that like once i was walking in an alley way and when one of them drove in slowly i screamed and ran to my mom to tell her i was almost kidnapped. or another time i was in the car with my mom and some latinos parked near by and i told her i was scared and that there were kidnappers right there and pointed at them.

ik i was also scared of black guys, like i thought grown black guys were often criminals and i'd often tell my mom i was scared when one of them walked by. even once i ran when this black guy was walking down the street bc he looked "scary". my mom would tell me that's stupid but i still believed it

also thought middle eastern guys where terrorist too, like the ones with the beards and i thought women with burqas had bombs under. also went through a phase at 7 where i avoided black people bc i thought they "stinked".

So, my best friend, let's call him Alex for now. I came over about 3 months ago to hang out after I was done my 2 weeks after coming back from my time. Alex explained to me that when we went to the beach together last year that Sam and he were flirting at the time, I was distracted, but he said I had told him that Sam had a boyfriend and not to get himself in trouble.

Long story short, apparently, when I went to get something from my car while Alex was in the water, Sam felt him and grabbed his Cough. He claims he was sure it happened and that he couldn't be making this up. He only brought it up to me recently becuase he was shy about it. Sam never said anything or acted like anything was up that day.

- One, Sam has been in a relationship for almost three years now. I know she loves her partner, so I'd be surprised she'd throw all that way so easily. However, she has a history of being reckless, so I don't really know.

-Two, Alex has a history of sexual misconduct. Sometimes, I genuinely think it's he doesn't realize how uncomfortable his statements can be. He recently said he wanted to watch me and another girl have lesbian sex for Christmas, and I told him that made me uncomfortable and that I had a boyfriend... who he's met several. He's also joked about taking my virginity when I was a little younger.

- Three, there was no one else there to confirm his story

I personally, I always think you should believe the victim, and I know male sexual assault gets ignored, and it's a big problem. He's my friend, and I care a lot about him. I've noticed since that day she's been more or less very cold towards him, even when he's the one being friendly. So, I have no idea what to do.