What is a simp and what is simping? The ugly practice now defined for you

[Unit1]

SIMP

The word I heard first a few years back but didn't get into my head because of it's often unclear usage usually posted by incels and angry misogynists in their "red pill rage".

This word can be seen as an abbreviation of 2 definitions:

(1) Sucker of insignificant and mediocre pussy

(2) SymPathetic - A portmanteau of Sympathetic and more specifically the word Pathetic - SIMP (but why not SYMP then?).

But before I go further to describe what a SIMP really is I want to clear up some misconceptions of what a SIMP is not. A simp is not someone...

• who respects or loves women or lends them a hand just because;
• who refused to join MGTOW or incels or to subscribe or agree to their opinions and often extremistic aggressions/accusations towards the opposite sex;
• who refuses to worship Elliot Rodger or doesn't agree, that women must be punished just because they're women;
• who in the objective point of view agrees with a woman and/or disagrees with a man;
• who believes men and women deserve (near) equal rights and responsibilities;
• who enjoys the company of women and talking to them;
• who compliments women or makes them giggle just because (no ulterior motives involved)

This list is not complete but these are the overall general ideas and you can complete the image from here yourself of what a simp is not.

So then. What is a simp?

This guy has pretty much summed it up with some real world examples, that he has experienced. Watch his video about it if you choose. If not, then skip ahead for a summary.

in essence a simp is a guy, who has pretty much no amount of self respect for himself and goes out of his way to support and sacrifice pretty much his own self and entirely at his own expenses for the bad types of girls, who couldn't care any less about him than he already does about himself (even if a bus ran over him in right in front of her). If you think about it - how is a girl going to respect a boy if the boy does not respect himself?

Usually simps do so in the false hopes of one day claiming her (what a terrible girl) or eventually bedding her or her giving the simps some attention since men are usually STARVED from female attention. Makes it seem like an oasis in the desert metaphorically speaking BUT HOLD UP & WAIT A MINUTE! It was a mirage! You got bamboozled! No oasis and no attention for you.

Simps kiss the bad girls asses without even getting close to kissing their ass in the bedroom. For these bad girls most men are nothing more but expendable tools, a wallet on legs and the rest is invisible.

Some examples of simping include:

• Giving your time/attention/money/energy to girls, who don't care about you;
• Rewarding antisocial behavior of bad girls (rudeness, bashing men and other "competitive women" ETC...). It should go without saying, that rewarding bad behavior encourages bad behavior;
• Submerging girls (just because they're girls) in overblown compliments (e.g. "ur the most beautiful woman on earth" to 100 female users);
• OnlyFans - throwing money at hoes online;
• Offering girls, who don't care about you to beat someone up in order to prove yourself to her (don't even get me started) or being taken advantage of (free meals, car rides ETC...);
• Her walking over you AKA you being a spineless doormat

There is actually one song, that should be officially labeled as the anthem of simps. Bruno Mars - Grenade. His lyrics are all about simping!

That sums it up boys and girls. If you have a lot of time or need something to listen to while you are busy doing something like driving or working, here's Rollo Tomassi's interview about simps and simping. I went through it while working and you can learn from him.

In any case - don't be that guy below!

[thimmslicc]

A simp is someone, man or woman ,
Willing to do anything to prove he or she is the best or the sweetest.
Constantly over doing and over achieving to not realize they're being used 100% of the time.
Real simp shit is knowing that person isn't gonna love you or like you back after doing certain favors for them.
If you knew you were being used, you're a simp. Might as well tattoo loser on your forehead.
These people that use others for self gain, self pleasure, they really do end up in karma though.

[Billlewis]

Oftentimes, we know quite well that we're being used, and we're perfectly happy about that:)

[Ozanne]

Thank you for explaining what this is. I have seen people using the term and didn't know what it was and kept forgetting to Google it. I don't care for men who have this sort of attitude about women and relationships, any more than the extreme women-haters. If there are men that want to be like one or the other, it's none of my business. But all I can say is that when I was single, it was a turn off, just as it was a turn off to meet a woman-hater.

[VanillaSalt]

Why do you suppose there’s men that hate women... no scratch that your answers gonna be a degradation on these men like every other woman... instead how do you think men get dates or into relationships... like really look at it. Because it seems to me that women tend to not understand or care what men have to put up with in order just to get the date and when men get upset the effort required isn’t giving results and their cheated on their bad people because their done with women... so seriously tell me how you see a man getting a successful date. I bet there’s a good 20 steps you miss along the way.

[Ozanne]

@VanillaSalt Don't be patronizing toward me please. There is nothing I've ever said or done on this site or in life that warrants it.

[ChrisG30]

Well said Vanillasalt

[RanaSng]

Correct VanillaSalt. She's obviously being narcissistic asf and being defensive in her response because she got subconsciously triggered reading the post somewhere that reminded her of the traumatic experience/ witness she has been in with men before.

[VanillaSalt]

I would love to not patronize you but every time I ask a question every woman gives me the same response... for instance... If I won’t pay for the whole date women won’t date me. Women will say every time we’ll I personally wouldn’t mind... meanwhile every other post is women saying if the man asks me out he’s paying...

Congratulations on being the one woman out of 100 on here that can answer that to my post the other 99 that ARE like that won’t respond because it makes my point. I really don’t care even if it is a almost even split. 80% of men already have to fight over the Bottom 20% of women. Trust me when it comes to relationships men have it so much harder. And that’s without even going into which of the bottom 20% are even marriage material.

[Taurus55]

@VanillaSalt agreed, I have seen women call the police just because a guy was nice and ackward. Labeling him a humiliating him.

[coachTanthony]

That first video was money and so true!

[Cat_Frank]

First thought:

You can say what you want about what the term does or does not mean and you may be right in terms of its original usage.
It has however been hijacked by the Incel and MGTOW brigades and now has all the meanings that you say it doesn't.

Members of those communities will go out of their way to proclaim anyone who isn't the least bit selfish towards women (that unless they are tied to the bed, kitchen or laundry they are useless) to be a Simp.

No matter what the original intention of the term, it's meaning has now changed and it's unable to be recovered.

Second Thought;

"Don't be like this guy"

Bugger off.

There are plenty of kinks that revolve around that picture reversed and they are considered to be acceptable to mainstream society.

What is the problem with a man wanting to take a submissive role? It's been found that many people who have professional roles tend to be sexually submissive because it allows them to be in the other side. They are able to switch off and get lost in what's going on rather than directing and problem solving.

It's time to end the idea that anyone who gets off in anything other than the missionary position is somehow weird and deserving of shaming or having their life ruined.

[Unit1]

You missed the point of the picture I posted in relation to simping but OK. Have an upvote anyway.

[Cat_Frank]

I might have, what was the point?

[Unit1]

In essence it's being cucked and used for money/benefits while she goes out with other men, who she considers are manlier or better than her 2. nd option, who she sleeps with and is romantically involved with. I had no intentions of linking any sexual kinks to these pictures.

[Cat_Frank]

Maybe I'm a bit hyper-vigilant about societies attitudes towards sex but you do just say "this is bad, don't do it".

[hahahmm]

@Cat_Frank "It's time to end the idea that anyone who gets off in anything other than the missionary position is somehow weird and deserving of shaming or having their life ruined." -- Just because someone thinks you're doing something stupid doesn't mean they want to ruin your life or actually care if you personally change or not. Just FYI

[Cat_Frank]

@hahahmm there is a very real fear within the kink community of losing jobs or family of they're outed.

[Unit1]

I mean if they're into being disrespected or degraded or being used, I won't stop them. Who knows? They may end up being into cuckolding and I am the one banging their wife 😁😁😁 It's a win-win either way.

[Cat_Frank]

And that @Unit1 is exactly my point. If they're into it and everyone is consenting then it is the problem of exactly zero other people in the world.

[Unit1]

Alright, point made.

[The_Sword]

I didn't watch the video, or read your entire summary at the end... I think you have the right idea, in a general sense.. I just think you've made an error about confining the term to something males do towards females..

simping should be considered a much more generic form of sympathy extortion, which many women do flagrantly (SJW style bigotry), only when they do it, its on the aggressive wedge of the Simp spectrum.

Also many people simp for virtue signal points, that have nothing to with relating to the opposite sex.. its just makes simplified, because they can use whatever false dichotomy that's convenient and available, to disguise the fact that they are unserious and uncareful, and wish to appear "kind".. by being unkind to a bogeyman story-narrative.

Simps were the same type of people who got Hitler into power, thy are the same type of people running BLM and antifa. The SJW false historical interpretation, is very SIMP infused. Useful idiots, is the technical term.

[Sparda20xx]

Well said

[Anonymous]

I don’t really get this post. This is just basic information that applies to everybody - male or female. There isn’t much to it, be a nice person but know your worth, don’t give everything to someone who isn’t there for you, respect yourself. Also I don’t see the wrong in enjoying spending time with women or wanting equal rights. And about not wanting to join incels movement, always saw that movement as a bunch of guys who put pussy on a pedestal, but having trauma or some kind of lack in social skills, or lack in social skills that caused trauma, or a bad experience with a woman in their life never knew how to go about it, so they tried to follow the pua community and red pill, some did well with that and others did not and joined the incels, blaming all girls for their own failures = still actually putting pussy on a pedestal, instead of working on themselves. I really feel for these guys thiugh, I think they carry a lot of pain, a lot of loneliness, you often hear about self harm and suicide in that community I think and a few that has diagnosises such as depression and anxiety or personality disorders.

[VanillaSalt]

And you believe women have no blame for their existence? A study was done 10 or so years ago showing 80% of women date 20% of men. This leaves 80% of men broken, bitter, and angry that all the work they put into themselves isn’t being acknowledged. I wanna say there was a more recent study showing it’s 90/10 now.

I believed either society balances itself out or our society collapses. However I was enlightened to a different possibility... polygamy. Polygamy is the only way women can continue to date like this and sustain our population.

[GigaDesu]

@VanillaSalt Polygamy would basically be a bunch of men cucking each other for the opportunity to dive into another mans swamp.

[AmandaYVR]

I like your two definitions. They're good.

The black guy in the first video... that's a pretty good video. He's pretty concise.
Yeah what he describes sucks, the girls are totally using him/guys. Glad he caught on and dropped them. "Sponsors", good word. Great way he ended it... "Some people will celebrate you, some people will just tolerate you, find out which..."

But even still, all that doesn't make him a simp. It makes him used, without him knowing. I still don't think we really need this simp word. And girls do these things as much as men do these things. Girls just are not complaining about it. Guys bitch publicly way more. Girls do it with their girlfriends privately.

[sadMeester]

Men are more motivated by negative reinforcement than women. Men used to be tough so that they weren't "gay".

The word helps shame men for knowing they have an issue and not fixing it.

[AmandaYVR]

@sadMeester Hmmmm...

[Unit1]

We also have the male version of so called "pick me". They either call us white knights, simps or beta cucks 😂
My faith in humanity is severely limited.

[ILLYRIA27]

We need words in this world
Include the word simp

[VanillaSalt]

Simps a very important word... it perfectly describes men that allow women to show their bad behavior and give them attention for it... men should treat a screaming woman like a child and just walk away.

I blame the internet for the most part but every small thing that tells women it’s okay to be like this we will accept you anyway is just setting up men and women for failure. Fewer and fewer marriages most fail. And women think a man will have them at 45 when their sexed out and have 2 kids...

[AmandaYVR]

Ok, well I agree with all you guys that that behaviour of enabling bad behaviour is not good.
Clearly I'm outnumbered here by the men of the world, but I still don't believe this word should be getting the attention it does (it's a trend. People like trends.) Take a step back, you guys, and think about how and why this idea developed. It's because of the internet. People are more connected than ever before in human history, and the internet feeds off of viral whatevers. You all probably think that guys are more pussified than ever, right? Yeah, there's some arguments to made for that, I guess, but really the bigger picture is that some people really like other people, and they often compromise to their detriment. But aside from OnlyFans, cam girls, etc etc (honestly, those guys are stupid, handing over their hard-earned cash to stranger girls who pretend to give a shit about them), girls compromise their values, integrity, and bow down to rotten guys, just as much as guys do to girls. I really think that's the truth. I could be wrong, yes. But there is also a couple of other issues at play here - guys openly, directly, shame other guys. Girls do it in a much more indirect and insidious way. They gossip, ice people out of peer groups, talk smack at and to them online, but from anonymous and spoofed accounts. You guys just don't see it in front of your eyes as much. (Though to be fair, guys also call out "truths"/injustices they see in the world, much more. That is true.)

[AmandaYVR]

To be crystal clear, I don't support anyone enabling shit behaviour, low morality, all that.
But too many guys are being attacked online, unfairly lumping them into the "simp" and "whiteknight" categories. As Unit1 said, there are many guys who are not "simps."
There could also be a certain [small?] amount of jealousy, with guys who are popular with girls. Other onlooker guys question the authenticity of all that attention and exactly what those relationships are based on. Fair enough.

Want to help solve 'the problem'? Guys should stop following hundreds, sometimes thousands, of 'hot' girls online; and especially, stop paying them money! My god. That does look desperate. It's all fake. Have a backbone. But some people are legitimately, seriously lonely. If you can pay for someone to at least pretend to care about you... I guess they [incorrectly] think it's worth it, for their mental health and self-esteem.

I guess you all feel this is necessary, to get your boys in line or something. Just please, if you're going to do it, be fair about it, and don't lump decent guys into the now-heaping pile. Girls are getting cheated on, ghosted, ignored, dismissed, used for sex, yada yada too, you know. It's rough out there for everyone.

[AmandaYVR]

Oh, and
"Simp, as it’s being used today, stands for “Somebody/Sucka who Idolizes Mediocre Pussy.”

www.insidehook.com/.../what-is-a-simp

Can just as easily be used for “Somebody/Sucka who Idolizes Mediocre Penis.” You guys calls them 'bad bois.'

[sadMeester]

I can see your point. Really it's often used the same way "gay" used to be. I've been called a simp for thinking women should still get to drive/vote

[Unit1]

Ha, this is a very good one Ms. Amanda! I suppose in that case women can be Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Penis (simps) too :D :D :D

[VanillaSalt]

Good points but at the same time men and women value what’s gained and loss differently. They also suffer it to a lesser degree.

Even an ugly chick can get laid once in a while... men have to earn every lay... and it’s valued more for men.

Another example is the attention women get caught men. This is men’s fault for giving women too much attention and women’s fault for not giving enough... both are wrong. I haven’t received a compliment since I cut my hair... No one acknowledges men so they have to build themselves and acknowledge themselves. And then some feminist movement comes along demanding women get the same thing we spent years building. We need a real balance between the genders for laws, children, divorce, government assistance, etc.

I agree with you both sides got a shit deal but who’s doing anything about it? Redpill and mgtow are not only censored and put down but mgtow is being made into a hate group in New Zealand.

So what do you say to someone like me that’s gone from homeless to making 70k a year, learning piano, learning Muay thai, lost weight, etc and yet get no recognition for my accomplishments? And I’m not bitching I genuinely want to know. Also so you know I went homeless because of my ex...

I expect you say that sucks. I feel for you. Everyone suffers keep work hard good buddy... Like everyone else but I know I gotta keep going but why should I as a man let you have a part of what I’ve worked for? How much effort do you think a man has to go through to get any form of acceptance. Or do we have no choice but to run with it?

[AmandaYVR]

@VanillaSalt I've been thinking about this. Here's one thing I think men don't see/immediately understand - [for better or worse, right or wrong, or just the innate differences on how men and women see the world] you men see getting a woman [into bed, etc.] as a marker of success, of your prowess, of your attractiveneness, skill, communication abilities, etc etc, right. [No argument there.] But the way that you tally that is by numbers, pass/fail, your 'body count', etc. And now I'm going to remind you that while it may not be entirely inaccurate, it is a pretty harsh way to look at life. It's very... masculine. It IS fact, I understand that; and it's basically a reality that all you men live with. You have to be the initiators, for the most part [and I am against that, and I have spoken on that loudly here; I wrote a mytake like a year ago about that, and trying to convince girls to take more action, not be so passive.] But if we/I distill that whole thing down to just the very essence, the thing, the way that males do/would... it's your body count that is the real measuring stick, right? And here's where I want to enlighten you - to bed women is success [to a man.]

[AmandaYVR]

Obviously, not so, to a woman/girl. It's way easy, right. But what we/they measure themselves by, is if they are [not chosen, but...] loved. In a relationship. Will a guy commit to them? Will he forsake all others for her? And I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about anything that's even in the vicinity of "I really, really like you, I want you to be my girlfriend." It's not such a huge ask, if you really honestly think about it from a girl's perspective. See it from their perspective... try... trying to get a [especially young] guy to make any level of commitment, to not want to fuck as many other girls as he can, at the same time, is like trying to catch... I don't know... Bigfoot.
Now please don't get mad at me, as I realize that is just one point of many we could go back and forth on. Believe me, I know.

"... but why should I as a man let you have a part of what I’ve worked for?"
What do you mean by that?

"How much effort do you think a man has to go through to get any form of acceptance. Or do we have no choice but to run with it?"
I agree with you on this, and I sympathize. And I've also written a q about what types of compliments people like, and what type of gifts men like. I'm probably more on your 'side' than you would guess.
And I'm sorry about your previous homelessness. And yes, I do know that it is males more than females who end up homeless and on the streets.
But you already seemed to be saying that I will say "sorry" and not give you much beyond that. So I think you're kind of trapping me, tbh. At least, appreciate the "sorry"?

[VanillaSalt]

Your sorry doesn’t mean anything really. Though you in most of your posts seem to get it there’s few like you that know or care. The fact is we can all come together till we’re blue in the face but all we’re doing here is bitching. Absolutely nothing will change even if every single person that reads this pay agrees with it. The works screwed and there’s no way to fix it... not while people like us are unable to get a major voice that can commit the masses. We will just have to suffer these times and get over it. It’s easier to just hate everyone else for the catharsis.

I mean when the shot hits the fan I’ll be the one checking the noise at 1am. So why do I have to give up control of the household when it’s me that’s expected to protect it? Women generally won’t date a man that makes less money than her but we’re gonna push higher pay for women so we have to compete doubly. I think the systems better leaning women at a lower average then men on the power scale. This forces women to couple up. The fact is that relationships are disappearing today. The sexes hate and disrespect each other. They see no value women in men because they don’t need or want them and men because women don’t value them so they just chase their primitive sexual urges. As shitty as it is to force women to rely on men a woman even forced to be with me would be treated well and would be happy. But because choice is an issue I’m not one nor am I given one. I can understand there’s some shitty guys out there so Illegalize infidelity and put it and abuse of a spouse into a new category of law with much more severe consequences.

[ragequeen]

It's important to highlight that simping is treating mediocre or bad women better than they deserve and accepting or ignoring that they don't get shit back. If she is awesome and treats her man like a king, and he gives her the world, he is not a simp. A lot of people mix these up. They think simping is just men admiring women in general when maybe they are out of their leagues.

The real meaning of simping is terrible and a huge problem in modern society. Men feel pressure and become bashed my modern feminists who put down what it means to be a man and expects men to treat her like an independent goddess.

If women started embracing their femininity and men were unrobbed of their masculinity, simping would be less common.

[TiaraGlitzNeon]

Well said. The word simp is mis-used a lot these days.

[fxllenone]

I see, your views have evolved regarding this.

[Celtero]

I always used to define a simp this way, before the word was popular...

A SIMP is someone that gives unjust favoritism to a woman for the mere fact she's a woman. They support the woman over the man in arguments even if the woman is arguing 2+2=5. They try to please the woman even if she's a bitch. They have the misguided principle of "always help women" and don't comprehend that there's such thing as bad and evil women.

The word surely has been bastardized, with people saying you can simp for men now...

[Elsa143]

For me a simp is
1. Lies a lot to save his ass from getting broken by his girl if he's caught in any affair or other inappropriate things.

2. One who got no ambitions or any seriousness about building a good life in general. More excuses/promises but less actions.

3. He's constantly checking out the hot girls page, following them and begging for attention from any unknown girl.

4. He's too obsessed with girls, porn and always lustful. He will literally f**k any 'unknown' girl or flirt back who gives him compliments or attention.

[Unit1]

The first 2 fit the definition of a loser, not a simp.
The 3. th one - the stalking part can be/begging part is part of being a loser and the following part - CAN be a simp trait.
The latter of the 4. th fits the definition of a fuckboy/manwhore. Make no mistake however because men are designed by nature to be lustful sex obsessed beasts. Better get that in your head now or else you'll need to make peace with lots of cats.

But I guess to you it doesn't matter. You will use words in accordance to how you feel and not what they mean.

[Elsa143]

Why women aren't designed like that?

[Elsa143]

Nature is unfair.

[Unit1]

Well, ask whoever designed humans. It's nature. I never met our designer 🤷‍♀️ Lions are carnivores and they hunt Deers for food.

On the other hand there are some nymphs/nymphomaniac women, whose libido exceeds the average man. I think it's safe to say, that most men would be lucky to have a nymphomaniac girlfriend.

If you want to try out how it feels being a man and sex crazed, you can try taking some testosterone supplements but be careful with those.

[White_King2000]

SIMP
Suckas
Idolizing
Mediocre
Pussy

An acronym describing a male who desperately attempts to seduce any women they can. This can be seen in various ways, such as overly complimenting women, dissing societal viewpoints of men in attempts to gain attention from women, faking illness/injuries for sympathy and attention of women, etc.
Nobody likes these kinds of people (besides women who are easily manipulated by SIMPS), so do your best to avoid being or being with one.

Similar phrases: beta-male, easy, 0 self-worth, 0 pride, 0 braincells
Jacob talking to Lauren: “I can’t believe he said women are destined to be housewives. If you were my girl, I’d be the one making sandwiches for you.”

Chad overhearing the conversation: “Holy shit, Jacob. You’re such a SIMP.”

[ObscuredBeyond]

One of my execs mistook me for a simp. Then, her BS went too far. I stood up for myself. She wasn't used to that. She started acting more and more like a bratty child. She was going on 30!

So I finally left. She was beside herself. As if no one had ever voluntarily abandoned her before ! And tried to win me back, but wouldn't apologize for anything , and was bedazzled that I wouldn't take the bait!

[Unit1]

Like a leader 🙂😎 Well done there!

[ObscuredBeyond]

She even pretended to be pregnant at one point, just to control me. But after admitting that was a lie, she lost her last real bargaining chip. As soon as she got her evening with me, she became someone else. And after everything she'd done, she quickly learned that the only way to keep me from cutting her off completely, was with a fake pregnancy scare. Because she knew how badly I wanted to have a kid, and that I'd never knowingly abandon my child.

But after a month or so, I finally learned that Andrew / Lilly wasn't happening. And then, she tried to violate a dog. And then, hurt someone else close to me. And couldn't comprehend how that was the last straw. She honestly believed that my patience was unlimited! I only hope my leaving taught her that some things are never okay.

She's not even the scariest freak I've met either. Yet, they all assume that I'll never fight back if they abuse me. And they are all wrong. I've gotten better about avoiding abusers. Though, I've discovered that trying to date Asian women over Facebook is usually a losing battle. They always get cold feet. The gal I get along with most is some former small time actress in California. I only don't make a move, because she already has a boyfriend. I suspect she is keeping me as a backup plan. But for it to work, she'd need Plan A to fail, and she'd need to escape from LA. I'm not gonna hold my breath.

[goaded]

I totally agree with you about Bruno Mars - Grenade, it annoys the hell out of me; apart from anything else, why would anyone care if you really would throw yourself on a granade for them (which you can't really know), when it's vanishingly unlikely to happen? It's like saying "I'd fight a Klingon for you".

Relationships are about making a connection, saying what you want or would like, listening to what they want or would like, and finding out if they're compatible. It takes some guts to do it, though; much more than saying you'd kill or die for someone.

[JosyJosy]

I always think of Simpleton

But I'd say a guy desperate for a girl or girls their attention to the point you could even use them as a servant or something, they wouldn't mind

[Unit1]

They obviously don't but that will only hurt their own investments and encourage female antisocial behavior.

[Screwit2020]

That’s what I thought at first too😂

[Aus15688]

You could make me a simp

[Lone_wolf122]

The whole simp thing has gotten out of hand... People nowadays are weird.. They try to put labels on everyone and make a huge stereotype about their personality... If i slipped to that hole... I could say most women are simping hard for men and it's hard to give examples.. start making fun of that and memes and stuff... and come up with a word for it... Just like that... And I'm a 2020 sheep...

[Lone_wolf122]

It's not *

[93_n_on]

You forgot, or kinda mentioned, but another form of simping is a guy offering to fight or go against another dude cause he rejected or won't date a girl and the girl is mad at the guy who rejected her.


What simping is NOT:
Complimenting a girl (not going over the top) or even just making an attempt to get at her. That's not simping

[Unit1]

Correct :)

[Kaazsz]

I think simps are nothing new and have existed since prostitution has existed. The simp pays for any form of female attention, and is not given female attention due to his own value, and his own natural magnetism that draws a woman to him.


In short, the majority of men are simps. Most women only give a man what he wants if he pays for it in some way. Very few men get what they want from women without some kind of payment.

[Anonymous]

We used to just make fun of this without getting overly worked up about it. Which is kinda weird now that people are out there angrily screaming SIMP! SIMP!

Just check out the movie Not Another Teenage Movie -- a classic by the way. There's a character in there "Best Friend Guy" who is basically a composite of that same character from every teen romance movie of the prior 3 decades or so. He's fucking pathetic and hilarious, but not someone you get worked up over. Just laugh and enjoy! The whole point of those stories is to try to learn about what tends to work and what tends to NOT work in real life. And the SIMP strategy is a pretty weak one as demonstrated in real life. So better for men to MAN UP and learn to be MEN if they want to attract attractive women.

[Chittychittybang]

I just talked to a guy yesterday. He was talking about how nice his girlfriend is to him and how badly he treats her because he doesn’t want to be a simp. I think the word is beginning to be misused and incorrectly at that. Most guys who say that are jerks.

[Unit1]

Yikes. He's gonna lose a good woman. I hope 😁

[SjE78]

the trouble is a lot of these terms often are used at an attack to insult or degrade others and in so many occasions are often misquoted or misused
but i believe you have hit the nail on the head here
good job :)

[Unit1]

Cheers mate!

[SjE78]

you're welcome :)

[JackofSpades]

Back when I was a boy we called them nice guys and white nights.

It's basically anyone who gives special treatment and or money to a woman for the purpose of getting attention and or the hope of having a relationship with her.

In some cases it's become a somewhat ironic term of endearment towards sny and all fans of female streamers especially in the V-Tuber community.

[Anonymous]

It’s a choice right? Women have been doing this forever but they got labeled wife material until we knew better and don’t do it anymore.

And why should it bother other men if a guy does it. I mean you can tell your buddy you are getting used but other than that what does it matter. A guy calling another guy a simp sounds like bullying

[GigaDesu]

Because sometimes you need to shame people to make them respect themselves.
Dunno in what world letting others use someone is a good thing...

[ProgressivePernilla]

"And why should it bother other men if a guy does it. "

Because simps are turning a whole generation of young women into entitled, rich hoes who do nothing but sit in front of their webcam all day and this is causing problems for the dating pool. It will also lead to even further declining birthrates in the west and white extinction.