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This is a follow-up question but more detailed.

I am part of a group on facebook which was dedicated to something which a store gave out on Black Friday. One year, this store failed to give this item out. Someone who lost their loved one started a petition which was featured on a certain cable news channel which is constantly bashed. But I digress.

I befriended this person, she was in a relationship. Last Thanksgiving she and I started talking a lot about things and would talk every night (she moved to the other coast to start fresh). So it was a lot of long sleepless night but it was worth it. She stopped talking to me for a week because she didn't want the long distance thing. But a week or two later, she came back to talk to me.

A few weeks ago, the person she ran away from contacted her saying he "found" something of hers. After that contact, everything went south.. way.. way.. south.

We were planning a marriage, we were planning everything. We had an immediate connection. Like we were friends forever. Like she was a missing piece in a puzzle in life. Someone who is an amazing person.

With the breaks on that, did I invest too much into this too fast? Did her past rear its ugly head for a reason? was she lying to me about the ex because she is not over him?

Editors Note: I been in many long distance relationships, reason being, living in an area which is a big fish in a small pond, and everyone knows everyone else. You speak to someone on the street, they are so-and-so's cousin who you went to school with 22 years ago, and that person knows someone you met in the grocery store the other day.

I am comfortable in long distance relationships because that is all I ever known. So basically I sent her jewelry, stuff for her iphone, and other things. I am on a limited income but I did this just because my heart is big. I am stupid because this ALWAYS HAPPENS TO ME. My heart is on my sleeve always.


What do I do?

So, first off, I literally just turned 30, and I live in a town where the average women look like this:
And which has the lowest average age of marriage in the UK. As a result, these are all typical examples of the single women (as opposed to teens, 19 or under) you find around here, in the local dating pool:

And where the MOST attractive single women over the age of 20 look like this:
But even the average ones are all convinced that they're the most beautiful and gorgeous women in the entire world, on a whole different level, and that "no man can ever be in my league". And even they practically all have kids from prior relationships by the age of 25, and don't stay single no matter how ugly, promiscuous or obnoxious they are, because with the single highest male to female ratio of any town in the UK, higher than those of Pakistan, India, China or Saudi Arabia, the men around here are just that desperate.

However, the legal age of consent in the UK's 16, not 18. This town also has one of the youngest populations in the UK, and all of the local secondary schools have both school uniforms for all pupils and different school uniforms specifically for those taking their A-levels (i. e, aged 16-18). Whenever I'm in town, or happen to be picking stuff up from the supermarket around lunch break or the end of the school day, I can't help but notice that several of these schoolgirls seem to find me attractive, with a fair few of them even flirting with me.

I'm single, and have no sexual experience at all- the average 16yr old schoolgirl in the UK isn't a virgin any more, but I still am. And I do want to have a relationship with someone. These schoolgirls are typically attractive, and they're the only females who've ever shown any romantic interest in me, progressively more so over the past five years. So, should I give it a go with one of these schoolgirls, accepting an invitation to ask her out, and potentially starting a relationship with her? Or not?