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My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage and having kids in the near future. We agree on mostly everything, but one thing I am on the fence about.

We were talking about how we would discipline our kids and my boyfriend said that if we have a boy, he believes spanking should be used. (I'm fine with spanking if needed.) But he said if we had a girl, he wouldn't be comfortable with us spanking her. He said he feels it's wrong to spank or hit a girl and he would prefer we use alternate punishments with her.

I'm on the fence with this... Is it acceptable to spank a boy, but use a different punishment with a girl? As long as they are punished equally, is that okay? Or must punishments be exactly the same?

For some reason ever since I've been growing up a bit you know in those "areas" I've been feeling uncomfortable around my dad. He has never made any comments about my body but he has looked. This all started when i caught my dad looking at my breasts and legs while we were talking late at night in the kitchen. he's been a great father and i doubt he'll ever do anything to me or he even thinks of me like that but I don't know i did catch him looking at me and its been bothering me ever since. So much that I've been avoiding him. I wear baggy clothes around him or i just hide in my room or bathroom if he's in sight. My mom has been asking why im avoiding him and acting strange. I've actually started to hate him now. Im rude to him. he's seriously a great father but I don't know. Am i weird? Sometimes i think well what if he was just looking at what im wearing not my actual body and then i feel disgusted with MYSELF for even thinking of him having perverted thoughts about me. But something about him and being around him makes me feel uneasy and like sexualized. Maybe im going crazy and have issues but i swear i feel that something is going on. That maybe he does think of my body. I have big breasts for my age. He also makes commente about "spanking my butt" when im being rude and i know it sounds like just a father trying to discipline his kids but im already 16 and even my sister has made comments about how its pretty gross and wrong in a way. It does sound sexual for sure. I feel so bad , awkward and disgusted for even asking this but its been bugging me for so long , i need to talk to someone. Can someone please give me some feedback and advice? Am i just disgusting and delusional or do i have a reason to feel uncomfortable and disgusted around him?

When Maria was 19 she had sex with a 82 year old man and got pregnant. Maria decided to keep the baby boy and named him Marvin. Maria developed postpartum depression. She was very sad all the time when Marvin cried she wanted to bang her head against the wall. She boob fed Marvin, changed his diapers, tickled his stomach, kissed his forehead and called him muffin. Marvin was a very quiet, child. He smiled a few times a day, he was affectionate towards her but he was more quiet and gentle about it. Maria found being a mother depressing and boring. Then when Marvin was 1 years old his father died from a heart attack. Maria felt like a failure, she fell into a deep depression. She became numb. She couldn't feel anything at all but did everything she could to support Marvin and made sure he was safe, well fed and taken care of. When Marvin was 2 Maria started dating again.

She dated a man named Mike, She loved this man. And Marvin liked him too. But they got into a fight and broke up. Maria had sex with three different guys in the same month and got pregnant with a baby girl. Maria could never find the father. When she got back with Mike, she gave birth to the girl and named her Selena. Maria was happy and more confident with her daughter. Selena eventually becames her favorite child but she treats both of her kids equally. She tells Marvin that he's handsome, a muffin and sweet. She tells Selena that she's strong, awesome, a star and can do anything. Years later mike gets into a fight with Maria and leaves her. Maria cries and sobs. Marvin and Selena are heartbroken. Maria feels angry and glares at 8 year old Marvin. She calls Marvin a horrible child and spanks him until his butt is bight red. Marvin screams and cries. Maria becomes stricter towards the kids. She starts spanking Selena and forcing Marvin to be more social.

is Maria a bad mother?