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Though I admit to finding this section entertaining upon occasion and having asked a couple questions there myself, it is home to some of the most empty-headed people on GaG, and there's no shortage of competition for that. The same questions are often asked repeatedly, by the same or different offenders, within a single twenty-four hour period. Newsflash, simians: there's a search bar at the top of the screen where you can see the response to that same query the past 483,951 times.

I get that some people have legitimate questions about their style or appearance, but it's largely stuff like "Will I die alone because I have small tits?" or "I feel fat, am I fat?" *attached picture of skeletal teen girl with perfect facial features*

What say you, Gaggers? Do you really care what nationality the formless blob in the badly-taken photograph is? Are you really going to vote "average" in the self-conscious dude's poll, even though his face could curdle milk and terrify small children? Comment below.

Im a believer in Aréte, a lifelong struggle to adapt and become the best version of you that you can be - though I've hit a philosophical rock. We often talk about men and women changing us in relationships. I see comments riddled throughout this forum about, "never changing yourself for anyone!"

But what if some change in relationships is necessary, or prior to, as it builds character and molds one into a different person down the road. Maybe rather than sit back and take the, "I don't need to change my dressing style/self esteem/money in my wallet/etc. to impress her/him - I just need to be myself!" We allow change to happen to impress someone, and interm, inlock new sides to ourselves we never thought we had?

We all say, "I'm only human, I'm not perfect," then why not strive for the perfection were missing.

But it at the same time I think, well adapting certain traits can be demoralizing and exonerating intuitions that aren't necessarily au current, or healthy, is not a decent practice of the positive individual. Dating in relationships teaches you about your standards and who you're looking for.

I want to know how you clarify these two philosophies, what is a decent change, and what is not.