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Ok so my sister is super pissed off right now. When they met, her boyfriend had insecurity issues from the beginning and would act somewhat jealous with a couple past ex gfs. Apparently he had a couple bad experiences too.

My sister had a couple past relationships too but always remained faithful to whoever she was with. Her boyfriend distrusted when she got pregnant and kept accusing her of cheating without any evidence. He wanted to take a paternity text on their 4 month-old daughter. He took and the test is positive; he is the father. He has kept apologizing ever since but my sister is very hurt and furious. She is thinking of raising their child separately. He can still visit but she still wants to break up with him.

Girls, would you break up or give him a chance? Guys, is the girl right to be upset and break up?

My boyfriend and I are very loyal to one another and I know he will never cheat on me. A few times I’ve caught him “checking out” other women. I don’t even think he realizes he is doing it because I would be talking to him and he just seems lost I his own imagination. Again, this has only happened maybe 3 times. I didn’t call him out on it; however, I’m curious to know if guys usually do this when they’re in a relationship. When guys check out other women, are they thinking “man I could do so much better”? I don’t know. Maybe that’s the insecure side of me speaking. Should I confront him next time he makes it obvious to me that he is checking out other chicks?