Creepy boyfriend goes to all my social media accounts?

[LolaZanna]

So, my boyfriend goes to all my social medias without me knowing it BUT he doesn't know that im checking every apps that he open or history on my google chrome which is my social medias, thats why I'm so creeped out and were in long distance relationship, and he has trust issues with me for years now and I gave all my social media accounts to him which is so dumb but whatever. I cheated on him couple of times but im a change woman now and I stopped messaging guys but now he's so paranoid that im cheating on him again! What should I do? I was thinking that I should break up with him bc its not very healthy for us. Ugh, its driving me nuts. Help.

[JosephPit]

Since you cheated a few times on him, you have 2 options. You accept that he doesn't trust you completely and hope it comes back after a lot of time, or if you can't live with him looking at your social media because he doesn't trust you, you can break up.

Maybe you can talk to him about it first and see how he is feeling and where he is coming from.

The fact that you check your history and all those things all the time also shows me that's you're don't really want him looking into it either

[DaviRon]

I've been through this. I know his feeling. Once my girlfriend talked to her ex and for an year I used to doubt her. You cheated oh him, right? Trust is very very difficult to regain. It's completely your mistake. He checks your social media because he love you, but doubt you. If you've really changed, over time he'll forget that and will trust you.

BUT, you're thinking about breaking up. I believe people think about breaking up when they don't give 100% in a relationship or they would have try to talk and fix.

[SwitchGirl]

"I cheated on him a couple of times" he has every reason to be creepy.
I think the best advice is to just break up

[boggboss]

Evedently this is a shit relationship u have cheated before he has never moved on so you are stuck in this area just end it at this point

[MotorcycleMan]

Well, you broke his trust in you. He may never get that back. Checking up on you like that may help.
It's going to be pretty tough to have a relationship without trust.

[Iron_Man]

And you wonder why he doesn’t trust you. It’s not a good thing having a girlfriend on a lot of social media sites

[Twalli]

You are the reason he has trust issues with you