A relationship will NEVER work if the love doesn't go both ways. Religion is paramount in a relationship, and If he makes you change your clothes before you go out, he isn't for you. But if you are dressing modestly AT ALL, I can see his point in saying it is unacceptable. As far as the other issues go, it sounds as though he is heading towards controlling, and you will have a next to impossible time getting out of it. I would look into this opportunity with the other Guy. It sounds as though he can love you for who you are, and everything he displays is genuine. BUT, you need to give yourself time getting to know him VERY well before talking about getting serious. Not only does this give the two of you the chance to get to know each other, but it gives you the time you need to assure yourself you are over the present.
But at the same time, the feeling of love will come naturally (that's what she said), when it is the right person. But how would you know if he might be the right Guy unless you give it a chance? But regardless, you need to get out of this relationship with your boyfriend, because it may be a matter of time before he gets more "abusive" of who you are. He is taking advantage of you, and eventually it will tear your self-esteem down to the point where you will have SERIOUS trust issues. GET OUT OF IT NOW!!!
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If you settle, you'll eventually regret it. Have you ever told your boyfriend you only loved him as a friend? If you implied one thing and now profess another, there will be more drama. Always be open and honest with those you are involved with. It sounds like you'll never fit into your boyfriend's life but are much more compatible with the new guy. Don't wait, once you've made up your mind. If you want to move on, tell your boyfriend you both know you'll never truly fit into his life, and you want him to be happy with someone who does fit in.
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Dear lord, what a fukkin disaster. Why in the world would you take up with a guy you never had the hots for? Absolutely ridiculous. And now you're bored and want out, crushing him and his entire world. You are exactly what gives women such a bad reputation.
I think if you aren't sure who you want, you don't really want either of them. I think if you truly loved one of them the choice would be easy. The fact that you are conflicted would lead me to believe you aren't that happy with your boyfriend
Terrible to break up. I advise you that no you should not
Just move the new guy in with you two, problem solved
Stay with your boyfriend
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