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So, I have been reading and listening to the book "The subtle are of not giving a f*ck" by mason mason. And, it's very enlightening after listening to the book for a few hours, and I would recommend everyone else to give it a listen to or read, however just be prepared for the profanity language the author uses.
So, there was this part about women, gave example of guys and what ever, but mentions the guy who is whatever about everything, doesn't show he cares, or just straight up doesn't give a flying F***. And, this guy gets all of the hot girls and gets laid all the time, instead of the nice guy. I mention this because I was always hit with the nice guy comment or he's way to nice. I will always be the nice guy no matter what, but once I read and listening to this book I wanted to give this "i don't care attitude" and just see where it takes me during this pandemic stuff also I'm pretty bored from school stuff.
It's been 2 weeks since I have trying the "I don't care attitude" and it's been working, a girl who friend zoned me who I talked to here and there called me to ask me out to brunch, then a girl I matched with on tinder is willing to drive 2 hours away from me to come see me, hook up, and send me nudes whenever I want. I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm in aw with every thing and stunned,. I passed the book on to my friends and the same effect happened. My friends are really sensitive, super nice guys at hear, and caring, but got with certain girls that would give us time of day, but this little tweak really made a huge difference.

So, ladies what is up with this?

Has any dudes experienced this or already do this

I am asking this because I am dating this girl. It is actually very normal for her to cook for me whenever I visit. When we get into a fight she usually make tea or coffee and we sit down and talk through everything.

Lately, there was a big fight where I was essentially on the verge of breaking up with her. We dont yell at each other or anything. It is just an intense conversation. Now... I have noticed something...

On 2 different occasions she has paused the argument and said, "Can we talk about this in bed?"

I am pissed off and she is pissed off so I am very confused by this. I sit at the edge of the bed. Then after 30 minutes of fighting back and forth she will ask me to join her at the head of the bed next to her. Then we lay there and talk some more. Sometimes there will be a dog cuddled between us and we pet the dog together while we talk.

In these moments I am pissed off but I want to have sex with her. It is so confusing why she is doing this when both of us are hurting and in pain?