Search Results: what can push a guy away

I pushed him away and he ghosted me. Do I just move on?

Long story short I had this amazing connection with a guy I was dating. I pushed him away more than once because I liked him and was afraid to get hurt. He forgave me quickly when I tried to end things the first time and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why is she doing this to me?

I've been going out with this girl for some time. She was in a toxic relationship previously. Over time she said she feels the same about me but since she's still with her guy, whatever we had is still stalemate. Recently...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I found out my guy had another girl and when I confronted him, he pushed me away. Why does it feel like he is blaming me for something bad he did?

I asked who she was. He said an ex. I said I could forget about it if he could and he agreed but now he's ignoring me. If she's not his girlfriend, and I strongly believe from crap on her Facebook she thinks she is, why's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm Not Religious, but I Get Signs At Every Turn

I will try to keep this as concise as possible. Never have any of my relationships ever worked out. For me, my career and being the most famous, well respected, and knowledgeable person in my field. That is my greatest...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Can someone please explain my exes behaviour?

My ex broke up with me a month ago out of nowhere. I took it badly initially but we met up last week and clarified he breakup. He 100% expected me to beg for him back but instead I took things on the chin and told him I...

Andiepandie1990

Xper 5 Age: 31

Why do I tend to be attracted to mean, cold and distant guys in my life?

I feel like I push sweet guys away because I feel like they’re hiding something. And with a mean guy I feel more protected because they’re more straightforward and honest. Is this a toxic attraction? How can I change this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How do you get over embarrassing yourself after a breakup?

I think I made ever post breakup mistake that I could have ever made. Long texts, crying, begging, voice messages and double texting. The guy played his part in things over time but the initial fool was 100% all me. It...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Everyone says its not my fault but that doesn't change how I feel. What should I do? Thoughts?

I’ve been dating this girl for 4 months. About a month ago we were getting takeout. I ran into get it, she looked at my phone and saw a text from a guy friend of mine she didn’t like. He was rude to her. When I came back...

JoeyBagODonuts

Xper 3 Age: 33

I cheated on him. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We started dating back in high school. I love him. He is the love of my life and I could never EVER see myself with someone else. We’ve even discussed getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get over wanting to beat my girlfriends rapist?

My girlfriend got raped a few months ago we were together. She was hanging out with her friend who she thought was her best friend. They went out for lunch and after he stopped in a park and asked for oral sex. She...

distressedanonymus

Xper 3 Age: 38

I backed off, he came back. The norm?

I'm no longer young, and find the same dating dilemmas and insecurities as when I was in my 20s. My boyfriend of 4 months started to back off after an amazing first 2 months together. He started off very expressive,...

Tracey426

Xper 6 Age: 52

Other

What do I sound like to you?

I’m a hard working caring person who always wants the best for everyone but has a breaking point and gets aggravated when someone purposely tries to piss me off but I’m also extremely aggressive towards people who hurt...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex is ghosting me. Should I just give him time?

I was with my ex for a few years and we were extremely close, he’s my best friend, and all of a sudden he’s changed. He sat me down over a week ago to say he wasn’t happy and gave me a long list of reasons, some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Is friends with benefits starting to develop feelings for me?

Long story short, I met this guy when we were young. Things began to develop later on as we grew older and I lost my virginity to him. I’m not going to act too ignorant because i knew at first that we were friends with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Best tips to get an ex back?

My boyfriend of 3 years pulled me aside last week out of nowhere and said he wasn’t happy. He initially said he wanted space but I did a tiny bit of begging and he eventually said he needed to go find himself on his own....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Am I stressing about this other girl who's also interested in the guy I like for no reason?

So I'm interested in this guy and I know he's interested in me too. There's been a lot of progress between both of us and I know he was going to make a move on me. But then there's this other girl who I found out is...

lenlenxyz

Xper 5 Age: 31

What can I do? and do not say move on. it’s not easy what are other ways?

He said that he wanted to meet up and talk about it but I don’t him it’s better if we don’t meet up cuz I want to be able to move on, yet he still texts. How can I make him realize his mistake and make him miss me and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, have you ever experienced „the wave of distance“? Is that a thing?

„The most common way we sabotage new love possibilities is through what I call the Wave of Distancing (or simply, the Wave). The Wave occurs when we unconsciously push a caring and available person away by inwardly...

Anonymous

(30-35)