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I don’t have any friends. All the friends I had in high school ended up becoming distant because of life circumstances or I either just ended cutting them off because they were mean towards me. I’ve only been in one short term relationship. And that was in my twenties. I’m told I’m pretty and apparently guys “check me out” from what I’ve heard but I haven’t witnessed it myself. I don’t get approached and when I have been approached, it wasn’t my kind of guy. I tend to get most of my attention from online dating. But that hasn’t been the best experience. Am I unlucky? Ugly? Shitty personality? Why don’t I seem to be liked? From previous places of employment, I wasn’t promoted and the women were so rude to me/always heard gossip behind my back.

Hear me out. I feel as if there is a personality flaw or I’m simply just not appealing to others. And when I say others, I am speaking about men. I am a young woman in her early twenties that has only been in one short term relationship.

I know of women with years of experience that began early on since high school. I didn’t get into the relationship till around a year ago. I was chubbier in high school and I know that could have deviated potential suitors away from me.

Maybe im annoying. Maybe I’m unattractive. Maybe I give out the wrong aura. I’m told I’m pretty by people and I’m not only referring to female friends or family members. Men too.

My viewpoint though is if I was actually “pretty” (as others say), wouldn’t I have a lot of suitors? I wouldn’t have to resort to online dating and be messaged by guys that either raise red flags in a predatory manner or simply guys that want to fool around.

I dont know or believe I am the problem. I feel as if I have shitty luck with guys. Friends too. Considering I don’t have many at all.