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The parent who cheats on their spouse or the parent who files divorce papers in response to their spouse cheating?

Always one person's fault when someone cheats? If you feel that way, please tell me how you can justify being so absolute. To add some context, let's say it's a married couple with young children, and one parent goes out and has a one night stand.

Do you belive that it take two people to make a relationship work and two people to screw it up?

Do you think that there are times that a person that made such a choice deserves another chance?
If you are one of those people that believes in one strike and you're out... what about the children who are innocent victims in this situation? Do they deserve to grow up without one of the bilogical parents around hardly at all because they made a horribly poor decision one night?

To be clear, I believe that infidelity is a terrible thing. I believe that two wrongs don't make a right. But I also believe that it takes two people to make something work... or not. So while I feel strongly that cheating on your spouse is a terribly poor choice to make, I believe that (at least in some cases) that the other (innocent) spouse may have played a role in what eventually led to that bad decision.

So... is it one and done and to hell with the imminent emotinal train wreck that is barreling down on the kids, OR... can a POSSIBLE second chance be worked out, depending on the details and contributing factors?

So say you two were married or together for 10 or more years before they died. you told that person that you loved them more that anything on this earth while they were alive. So after say about, 5 months or even a year or two after they die, you start having sex or start a new relationship. Would you consider that cheating on your former spouse in you heart?

If I said, "They cheated on their spouse," to you, and didn't specify who it was, which gender would you automatically think was the cheater?

Curious.