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Ok so I am a single mom and I find it hard to meet people. A while ago while drinking the topic of a threesome with my friend and her boyfriend came up as a joke. We are both bi and attracted to each other and it went from a joke to reality. I liked it because I wasn't having sex elsewhere so it was great. Then we made it a regular thing. At first we would use condoms but realized that was too costly since they were always being switched out so after being tested we decided to have unprotected sex. We did make a mistake of me and the boyfriend hooking up without my friend once but we both felt bad so we confessed and were forgiven but warned not to do it again. Skip forward a few months and well I was on top and not paying attention to him and it was to much for him and he came inside me. I'm not sure if I forgot to take my pill or what but now I am pregnant and it is his. I don't plan on keeping it since I can't afford another child right now. They however have tried in the past to get pregnant but couldn't and kind of gave up for the time being. Besides I wouldn't be able to have someone esle raise my child as I sit by and watch so I would never be able to give it up for adoption. So I was wondering if I should tell them I am pregnant or just leave it be?

I've been dating the same guy for over a year and a half. It's an on and off extremely long distance relationship. It came to me a few weeks ago that our relationship worked out fine in the beginning but it took a toll on my health since I was making my education and my boyfriend my priority. According to my friends and family, I was looking more and more like a zombie.

So, I talked to him about it and we agreed to video/voice call each other whenever both parties were available (aka no school, no work, no projects). It was great for a few months until we started less and less. It has gotten to the point that we talk a few times a month.

I have lost time and love for him. I can no longer imagine a future with him. I am positive that we do have to break up but there are a few issues.

His mother wants us to marry the next year (which is crazy because I would be barely 18, and I want to continue and prioritize my education in order to provide a better life for my mother and my future family) (Don't get me wrong. I do want to get married but not this early. It's risky for my health and my career)

His stepdad has cancer and is at the edge of life. He has also given his blessing and wants me to move to Canada with them. He is working a full time job to support his mother in the event that his stepfather passes. He will be attending college in addition to his job.

He has possible gotten a girl pregnant during our last break up (around February). He claims they (including himself) were all drunk and they forced themselves on him. No condoms whatsoever.

He has cheated on me on the past.

Should I break up now or wait for a better time when it's less hard for him?