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So, I've been really happy recently with my boyfriend. Everyone says we are in the "Honeymoon" phase. We were friends for about a year before we started dating, and once we started dating, everything just made more sense. We laugh a lot, have a lot of inside jokes, and lots of similar plans for the future.
I don't ever date casually. When I date, I'm looking for a husband. So we've talked about stuff-preferences with money, career goals, family goals, all of it. We agreed on almost everything, and it seemed too good to be true until we've been spending every day together and I see that he really does have the same values as me.
Of course, we argue, but we have learned how to see from each other's perspectives and it's usually a misunderstanding.
A friend is getting married already and although I DO NOT want to get married until I'm at least 24, I started dreaming about my own wedding. My dress, the songs, everything. Boyfriend isn't freaked out, he plays along and suggests songs to play. I was wondering if I'm crazy or something. I just like to dream. I know realistically that it's silly to think of that sort of commitment with someone you've only dated for 8 months, but when we are cooking together, or at Walmart, living our everyday lives, it just feels so comfortable. We want to help each other. We love spending the time to ourselves and to each other. I'm probably in the honeymoon phase but am I a nutjob for looking at wedding dresses?

They're all equally hot. Which would you date?

Girl 1: Kind, warm-hearted, practical, down-to-earth, and hardworking, this girl is family-oriented and committed to her community. She’s a practicing Christian, works as a teacher, and is highly reliable. You can count on her for anything, and marriage and kids are her top goal in life. Her hobbies include cooking, gardening, crafts, nature walks, volunteering for local causes, watching movies, and spending time with friends and family.

Girl 2: Curious, intelligent, witty, and intellectually-inclined, this girl is a formidable combination of brains and beauty. She’s an atheist, is working on her Ph. D. in environmental science, and is fiercely loyal and devoted once committed. She loves to have engaging, thought-provoking conversations with her partner, but also loves to support and take care of him. Her hobbies include reading about history, science, and philosophy, visiting museums and art shows, blogging, and learning foreign languages.

Girl 3: Intuitive, sensitive, creative, caring, and compassionate, this girl is always willing to lend a sympathetic ear to people’s troubles. She is spiritual rather than religious (practices Buddhism), works as a writer, and is passionate about animal welfare. On the introverted side, she enjoys relaxing at home with her partner and pet cat and has a strong nurturing streak. Her hobbies include painting, music, poetry, board games, and reading fantasy novels.

Girl 4: Outgoing, energetic, adventurous, friendly, and adaptable, this girl is the life of the party and she brings the fun wherever she goes. She’s a lapsed Christian, works as a digital marketing strategist, and is ambitious in her chosen field. She goes after anything she wants with unwavering drive and enthusiasm, is very accepting of others, and always goes to great lengths to make those around her feel included. Her hobbies include rock climbing, skiing, travelling, dancing, team sports, and going to parties.

So I went on a first date with this guy the other day. It was the best date that I'd had in my life. It was everything that you would want. We laughed and got along really nicely. He took me to one of his favorite home-cooking restaurants and ate the parts of the meal that I didn't like. We rode the train together and he protected me from the large crowd of people. We got drinks, I can't drink so well and he knows that- but we still each had two shots of tequila. Then we went and sang stupid songs at karaoke. By this time, we realized that the last train had already left. We were in Tokyo and I live in the prefecture over, about an hour and a half by car, taking a taxi wasn't an option since it would end up costing around 150USD. We decided sharing a hotel together would be the cheapest option since neither of us lived close enough, and it was much cheaper. Around 30USD for each of us. We slept together at the hotel and I lost my virginity, but it's not like he knew that. We stayed in the room until noon the next day and then went our separate ways, before that he kissed me and told me that he would see me again soon. I believed him. We talked for a couple days since then but today something suspicious happened. I texted him "I hope everything goes well with your school." he responded. "Thanks you too, I hope you enjoy your remaining days in Japan." (I have over a month). I thought that seemed like a goodbye message so I sent another to see if he really intended to end the conversation. He did. No response came, even though he read it. Then I skipped to assumptions. Did he meet me with the intention to sleep with me? Did he take us out to drinks on purpose, knowing I can't drink well? Did he miss the train on purpose? I became very suspicious because I would have never slept with him if I thought I wouldn't meet him again, especially since it was my first time. Some friends say he may have interpreted my message wrong... Did he use me for sex?