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I was suspecting my long distance boyfriend having affair with Yannie who he also met online. He told me they are only friends but I was wondering why he cares about the problems in her life. He tried to justify it that he is just compassion person but he rarely cared about mine (emotionally unavailable) and do not even anymore sends gifts even if I do. I also caught him sending a flower to this girl after 3 months of our relationship. And, also sent her family foods two months because he said they are poor. He said he only send it as a friend gify because she was depressed. He insist me to look a job for this and he got mad when I didn't.

I got so mad of the girl to the point I told her that he was stealing my boyfriend and to stay away from my boyfriend. The girl blocked him but then my boyfriend got so mad that I destroyed their friendship. He told me they are just strictly friend and the girl has a girlfriend cuz she is lesbian.

If she is lesbian why does she need to vent to my boyfriend and why my boyfriend cares a lot.

Am I being jealous or my instinct is right they have affair?

My previous boyfriend (now ex) expected great/elaborated meals, different soups, creative salads and other desserts. However, the fact that he was demanding and doing little in return (I was working too) to make me feel appreciated got me unmotivated quickly. I started switching back to simple dishes.

I've invited him a couple times to good places (sometimes also spoiled him with a good gift) and he didn't reciprocated. He used to focus on fancy things for himself only, always used discount tickets, wanted to go dutch even on my own b-day, never even gave his own mother a good gift for her b-day and wanted to stay at home on the weekends, doing nothing instead of going out and spending quality time... not move out of the bedroom.

If a boyfriend is acting like that and is a total cheapskate (while his girlfriend isn't) but expecting great desserts and meals to be served isn't that asking too much?

On my birthday my boyfriend was visiting his mother, I was fine with it, and he met me on the weekends, he gave me a bottle of wine said it's very expensive, it's mine now, I can decide however I want, bring home to share with friends or drink here, I said let me leave it in your of your place first, I will take it away. That night there was no birthday cake or birthday meal, the other morning I left and forget to bring the wine. After that he didn't mention the wine anymore. One week later he visit his best friend birthday, took three hours train and bought him a perfume. I said great, he said it's not price but the gesture and heart that he put in, I asked him but why U don't remind me to bring my birthday gift for so long, I think U just don't care about my birthday and when U bought the wine U also did not really put that much heart inside. He said I should appreciate it, because I just got a Dior lipstick on velentise day, I shouldn't complain or compare too much, why can't we just have nice meals and I should appreciate that he invited me meals everytime. But I also cook for him many times and bring fruits and honey and junger everytime he got ill, I never ask him to appreciate me. Should I break up with him?