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So ever since he started working again after being unemployed for 3 years he has been overly happy. Not the reason I think he is cheating. About 3 weeks ago he started nonstop talking about this girl he works with. Laughing while he is talking about her. Telling me about all these pet names the two of them have for each other. Telling me how much they horse around and raise hell together while they are working. I didn't start thinking he was cheating until I walked into the room and he tilted his phone like he was hiding the screen from me. And then about a half hour later he moved from the seat with me to the couch opposite from me and I was able to get a glimpse of him texting someone paragraphs (which is completely unlike him- he is a 3-4 word texter and always has been). He has been on his phone almost nonstop during this time and has been sleeping with the phone rather close to his face when normally he sleeps with it on our dresser. Also, he is now overly excited to go to work all of the sudden when not even a month and a half ago he was talking about quitting because he can't stand the line of work he is in. So his behavior has taken a complete 360 since he started talking about this Morgan girl. Oh, and he has also started to with hold sex from me. Makes up excuses almost constantly.

I asked him about it and he just walked away from me. He then told me later on that if I was going to question him then I must be hiding something and asked to see my phone. I gave it to him because he asked and I don't have anything to hide but he then refused to go through it and he just walked away from me, again. Where he won't talk to me about it; would it be justified if I went through his phone to get some answers? We have a baby on the way. I don't want to leave without knowing the truth but I have always been against the whole "creeping" thing. What can I do at this point? If you were me, would you go through his phone?

I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years almost 2weeks ago. We had a heated argument bus I went through his phone n saw things a girl should trip over. One thing escalated 2another n I left n hvent seen him. He msgs me he's sorry and misses me. I ddnt reply til the next day told him I wsnt ready. He said ok I understand, bye. I instantly fell for it and said "don't say bye". He said what else am I supposed to say. I wanted 2 talk about the situation like adults and he said yes bcus he "hated this shit" I went to his house n he looked awful. He looked worse than I did during the breakup. Like he used anti-depressants n more than likely coke. All I did was cry n slept less. I askd him did u want to talk about it, he was hiding his feelings. He asked how I was doin I told him i was gearing up 4 school n he was lookin 4 jobs "Well u know I'm sorry and I didn't want u to wonder, I just wanted to see u, and pretend.." he acted like he ddnt want 2 talk about it. I tried but nothing. He started 2 deny what happened. I told him "I'm not pretendin, u wntd attention" n left. So he sent me a text frm whatsapp bcus he's in a bad situation in his life so his phone is off. It said "I just wanted 2 see u guess we're too different". I told him "we agreed 2 b civil. I cnt change u 2 the person u used 2 b when we were happy" I +'d "ur mom thinks u changed as well, U wanted 2 pretent. I'm not ur blame, n u can't keep beating me dwn 4 whatever, I refuse" then ended it with "I wish it was something I culd do, but I can't.." He has not replied. I think he wanted a rise out of me n it worked. I love him so much for it to end. I know I can't do anything... What do u think of the situation?