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So there are two best friends named Ben & Ted (fictional names)

Ben & I met a year & a half ago,we liked each other a lot,used to call every night got off with each other every time we met. As when we started to develop feelings for each other, he met this girl and got into a relationship with her. During this time he became best friends with Ted. We stopped talking until 5 months ago,when he got single again and being a player & a very attractive looking he is, he spotted my best friend & we made a deal that he goes out with her while I go out with Ted. Ben & I never told anyone about our relationship in the past,not even to my best friend & Ted. So they do not know anything about us.

Ben & my best friend was a one time only, though Ted & I kept going as we liked each other, but nothing serious.

Recently,I was meeting Ted quite a lot & things are getting serious,although Ben is getting jealous of us.

Yesterday, I spent the night out with them & we hit the clubs. I was dancing with them & Ben was grabbing my hand while Ted holds my waist.Ben talks in a way that only I can understand, like he was saying "how come you get a gorgeous blondie like her & here there's nobody?" and Ted told him that there are a lot of girls,& advised him to go pull one,tho Ben wanted a blond & I was the only one in the room. Ted went to get a drink & there was me & Ben. He was feeling down,I put my hand on his cheek & told him I'll get him my friend. He grabbed my hand & with his eyes were fixed to mine he told me that no girl was pretty enough in the room,so he refused my offer. I jokingly told him let me get my twin & he said "yes please." He was looking at me with the same look he used to give me that time.

Yeah,I still like Ben, & I know he wants me back .

Though I don't want to hurt Ted as he's an amazing guy,respects me a lot & I really like him too.

I'm scared of finding out about us. So were just burying it under.

What should I do? Help ! :(

I seem to be caught in a love triangle between one of my best guy friends from school and his ex. Him and I have had feelings for each other for about a year but both of us have been dating other people until a couple months ago.

He visited me a couple months ago and kissed me when he was still with his girlfriend. They ended up breaking up, and we have been talking more ever since. I went to visit him and he was very sweet, holding me a lot and kissing me and it felt nice that we could finally get a chance to see what happens between us.

His ex was furious she found out I went to visit, she asked a couple of my friends to spy on us and is super immature and draws him in with sex. I got a text from him last night saying that we might be better of as just friends, and of course it's because his ex went to visit.

I told him to be a man and call me and I said I get you still care about your ex, but do you care about me? And he said of course he does.

Our mutual friends say that he really likes both of us, but is bad with distance which both his ex and I are far away from him right now and he really just focuses on who is there at that moment. When I visited he ignored the many texts and calls he got from his ex. All of our mutual friends say they want him to make a decision, which I want too but I'm not about to wait around.

Now I'm stuck because I've cared about him for so long, but I don't like to get myself in the middle of dramatic situations and I'm not about to give up being single with the way he is acting. I'm still bummed and just can't let go. What can I do?