Hello all, thank you for your time and responses.
Here is my long story short. I have these two female friends, who are sisters. One is my age (23), the younger one is almost 21. Even though neither of us really remember, apparently we all hung out a few times when were all kids, along with other mutual friends according to our families. So when they moved back to our hometown (Miami) from CA a few months ago, we all started catching up and going out in groups.
The older sister has feelings for me, but I see her as just a friend and that's where we kept it (I think she still likes me though). But I have a big thing for the younger sister. We get a long very well, I'm pretty sure there's a mutual attraction there, and we spoke about me visiting her while I'm in Boston this fall (that's where she'll be for college) and us hanging out together. I'm hopeful because I want a date 1-on-1 and not with anyone else.
What should I do? I understand I can't make anything formal about it now, it is a very delicate situation, so I'm planning on just continue flirting and make my attraction towards her more obvious with time. Any thoughts? Thanks!
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It's not that big of a deal to me. You told her you just want to be friends. Yeah, she might get hurt, and might get upset with her sister for being with a guy that she likes but you openly turned her down. It is what it is and she can either leave it or take it, but she should have no business in your relationship with her sister. The only trouble you will get yourself in is her being jealous that her younger sister was able to be with you (assuming you guys do end up dating) and not her. She likes you, so her only reason for not wanting her sister to be with you is because she can't be with you. If she really likes you and is really a friend, then she should be happy with having you in her life, and should be happy with whomever you decide to date. Even if that person happens to be her sister. Since it's her sister, she should also be happy for her sister for finding a guy that she considers to be a good enough guy to date.
Look at it this way, at least you didn't date the 23 year old and she's now your ex who is still a friend and now you are trying to get with her younger sister...1