Okay girl, I gotta say, that it pretty complicated. But I've SORTA had this kind of thing happen to me before, and now were almost succesfully dating. The only advice I can give you, is just buck up and come clean, I promise if he truly cares about you like you say he does, he won't just up and ditch you and your family for something like this, and if he does he's so not worth it. Just tell him how you feel but also tell him you don't want to ruin anything and that you hope things will work out in any way, that way, if he returns your feelings, you guys can sort things out, and if he doesn't you can continue the way things were. and forget it ever happend. the way you described it, it does kind of seem like he's a little interested in you, but hasn't said or done anything because of the age difference, and for all you know he is interested but he's just waiting for you,because he feels like if he makes a move it will ruin things because he's scared of you being scared of him, on the other hand he might just literally think of you as a sister. BUT you'll never ever know unless you just fess up, and I know it seriously sucks, but I promise it'll be worth it, as long as your willing to accept whatever outcome. oh! and don't start hitting on him or he'll think of it as a joke since your relationship is so close to brother/sister-ness. But I could be wrong with that last statement because it depends on the guy. whatever happends, I wish you good luck girl! and I hope this helps in any way :)
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U are in a difficult situation, But don't worry things will work out.
First of all, go through dry phase, cut him off totally and see how much you miss him, it could be a phase kinda thing, may be he getting his white coat is trigging your buttons. So see by doing this feeling goes or not.
If you still have feelings, its means that you are really falling for him and you better do something abt it.
I would recommend take baby steps, first as you guys do normally talk. Ask him abt his love life, like if he has a girlfriend , if not why, tease him a little if you can. Secondly ask him for advise , tell him some cool/hot guy at your school are asking you out, whom should you pick and see his reaction. if he is showing no signs of liking you then do not put any move on him. You rather move on as it would just make the relation awkward.
But if he looks somewhat interested then tell us, would advise how to take it from there.
Good luck!
I've known my friend for three years also. I call her the same thing and I'm falling in love with her but she already has a boyfriend. I don't have the courage to tell her because she has him and I'm friends (sort of) with him. I wish you the best of luck...
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I've been there, my advice don't ruin a good thing, sounds like you got a great relationship with the guy now so don't do anything to screw it up. These kinds of relationships are the best, they're way better than a romantic relationship could ever be.
LOL when I just read the question I thought you were talking about something else... Yuck
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