My brother in law is a family judge who must earn good money my sister works for customer service in an company that distributes industrial, medical and cleaning products to many companies locally and other countries. Ims ure she earns less than her hubby. They do not have kids on their own, my brother in law do have 3 kids from a previous relationship and those kids are already grown up (although they are not married) and he is already a grandfather. of one grandkid.
Me, my brother and my mom we are in total different position than my sister. Since my dad passed away (8 y rs ago) we dont have enough money we used to have when my dad was alive to pay home things or to give us perks. When my dad passed away my mom mismanaged the money my dad left her as an inheretance so my mom end up having 3 banks debts (loans) that until this year (after 5 years) we had manage to pay the debt of 2 banks, there is still one to go. My mom simply can't handle money on her own otherwise she eitehr looses it, or lend it to a person who im sure will neer pay her back or mismanage the money plain and simple
Due to that money issue at my house we can't lets say repair home things ASAP or right away cause we have to know if we have money left or enough money to do those kind of repairs but also there are other priorities where the money needs to go and not a home repair. My sister gets upset or mad that we dont do spend money on important things such as home repairs and we could take weeks or months to do them.