Do you think my sister should stay away of things that do not concern her?

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I have a married sister and she lives with her hubby. They both live in a nice modern house and has nice things in their home. The house is not big and even though my sister and her hubby are not like rich, they both manage to live comfortably and lets say well and they can spend money on vacation local trips like 3 times a year, each year they spend Christmas and New Years Eve overseas, they dont spend it here in the country with the family. They both have cars, from time to time they go out and socialize with their respective friends. If their house need some kind of repair they do it or call the person who can fix it right away, cause they have the money to pay for the services on hand. They remodelate theri kitchen 2 years ago and it cost money, they remodelate on room and turn it into an office during pandemic and it also cost money

My brother in law is a family judge who must earn good money my sister works for customer service in an company that distributes industrial, medical and cleaning products to many companies locally and other countries. Ims ure she earns less than her hubby. They do not have kids on their own, my brother in law do have 3 kids from a previous relationship and those kids are already grown up (although they are not married) and he is already a grandfather. of one grandkid.

Me, my brother and my mom we are in total different position than my sister. Since my dad passed away (8 y rs ago) we dont have enough money we used to have when my dad was alive to pay home things or to give us perks. When my dad passed away my mom mismanaged the money my dad left her as an inheretance so my mom end up having 3 banks debts (loans) that until this year (after 5 years) we had manage to pay the debt of 2 banks, there is still one to go. My mom simply can't handle money on her own otherwise she eitehr looses it, or lend it to a person who im sure will neer pay her back or mismanage the money plain and simple
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My mom is an elder person but many years ago she knew better how to manage the money my dad gave her. My mom is a housewife and had always had been. So due to that mom money issue, my brother and myself step in and now are in charge of handing mom pension money each month. But my brother and I know that it is mom money not ours so we dont waste or squander the money unnecessarily,. My brother has an unstable independent job, so he gets paid when there are works for him, otherwise there
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no incoming money for him, and me at this moment im unemployed.

Due to that money issue at my house we can't lets say repair home things ASAP or right away cause we have to know if we have money left or enough money to do those kind of repairs but also there are other priorities where the money needs to go and not a home repair. My sister gets upset or mad that we dont do spend money on important things such as home repairs and we could take weeks or months to do them.
Do you think my sister should stay away of things that do not concern her?
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