I am chubby and never had a boyfriend. I am pretty but a lot of guys I have ever had an interest in has hurt me. Guys have said that I would end up being a spinster. Girls have told me I would never be pretty enough to get a boyfriend. I am tired of hearing such stuff. I know I am young and I have a lot of time but I just want to be loved just once to know what it feels like. Is it because I am chubby or as some would say fat? I have never been kissed, never held hands with a guy. Never. Ever been on a date. Never. And I want that. All of my friends have been with there boyfriends since freshman year. I didn't even go to prom I couldn't buy a ticket because I would have been the only one of my friends going alone. I am tired of being the third wheel the last end of the triangle I hate feeling alone. I just want to know why?
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Your first and sole focus should be on loosing weight safely, not finding a boyfriend. Men of all ages place a VERY strong emphasis on physical attractiveness. If you want to give yourself a chance to land a guy, loosing weight will be the number one thing you can do to help yourself. Not to mention, it will improve your health and mental well-being. What steps have you taken to loose weigh thus far?3
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