As a big friendly and somewhat sweet Scots guy I sometimes wonder if women see past the ass-hattery of douchebags in amongst the menfolk and find us big cuddly burly ones enough to bring one of us home, feed us cake and snuggle upto? Where art thou humble womenfolk?
Everyone has their preferences. Plenty of guys like chubby girls and plenty of girls like chubby guys. I wouldn't say I go for chubby guys, but I do enjoy a nice dadbod.
The thing that annoys me is when the majority of fat guys who don't put in any effort go for cute girls that spend a lot of time on their fitness/getting in shape. Then when the fit girl rejects fat guy because she isn't attracted , the fat guy says she only goes for assholes lol. If fat guys go for fat girls then there would be no problems for fat guys. If you spend the large amount of time to get brolic/get in shape it will be easier for you to attract a pretty girl, but I know you don't want to put in the effort and expect them to magically find you cute and cuddle with you. the reason I am this engaged with your question is because I used to be like you man two and a half years ago. I was overweight and everytime I went outside and saw women with men or pretty women on the street , I would think they only like douchebags and not nice guys like me... two years later , now I work out five days a week and lost weight, now girls check me out and not the other way around.
For a bit of friendly clarification I USED to be a LOT bigger than I am now and in pic. I am still working on me however i am mostly broad, burly muscle as I always have been a big fella but as for the "nice guy" persona this instance isn't totally how you perceive upon face value. I do not count myself within the "nice guy" category i am more of the "smart, somewhat nerdy guy with common sense" 😁.
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