Do girls actually like chubby guys?

[Electro_rat]

I’m a chubby guy, six feet tall and in all my life girls have basically ignored me and or avoided me to their best ability. Is it because I’m chubby or is it just me?

[Anonymous]

Requirements to be considered a female to "possibly" like you and "possibly" get a second date.

- Extremely handsome
- He has a huge penis
- Over 6ft tall
- Submit his will to her, but still come across as a macho guy
- Muscular
- 6 pack abs
- 6 figure salary
- Be a comedian
- Be a chef
- Be an electrician, mechanic, professor when it comes to studies to help the kids
- Have his own home
- Have his own car
- Be spontaneous
- Be sweet
- Read her mind before says anything

These are some of the things females want in guys or men nowadays. This is why most of the times, females are so broken, unappreciative, stubborn and delusional in this era, this is ZERO point to be chivalrous because they don't deserve it, they don't deserve your romantic creativity, your charm, your kindness because all females do nowadays is not give a single chance and reject or toy with his emotions by dragging it on for months... purposely making him angry so he gets mad... say he's gaslighting and overreacting and then blames him for her own stupid immaturity. Guys stay single because females aren't worth your time or effort, they will eventually break up with you because he destructive, messed up past will lead her to follow the toxicity that runs through her veins.

[Hellraiser1984]

Im chubby 6' too. No girlfriend ever. Women only date men that will make them look good. So that means only fit attractive men. Being with a fat guy like us means to themselves that they have low self esteem and gave up on themselves. Their friends will make fun of them if they date guys like us. Their parents will look down on them if they date guys like us. Dating fat people when you are skinny is a social taboo. We're seen as unhealthy, unkempt, gross, and beneath others. Everyone hates fat people. They only see our bodies and nothing else. Our only real choices is another fat person or lose the weight. I'm going to get weight loss surgery later this year and maybe then women will notice me.

[SueShe]

There is more to a person than just looks but it is unfortunately true that a great number of people are put off by the looks of another human being. This is a very superficial and egoistic behavior because they don't know about the character, intellect or personality of that person. All they are concerned about is the way he (or she) looks.

Now, feeling ignored by girls must have impacted on you and if you want to try to change that impression, you would have to lose some weight if possible. Doing exercises and adapting your diet would probably a good way to start and to shed a few pounds.

You can have a great personality but people don't look beyond the appearance of a person.

[blackeagle007]

This is true. Wish it wasn’t like that

[sage2021]

I don't mean to sound mean but I believe in honesty.
You might have been a chubby kid, but you are a man now and not just chubby but obese.
Women aren't opposed to the "Dad Bod" which is not skinny or perfect by all means. It's attractive to a lot of women.
If you can find examples of the "Dad Bod" which I am referring to and I get to be around that size it just might draw in the ladies. 👠👠 💄💘

[Finchie40]

Some girls’ do , just depends on what she is attracted to to. But I see girls’ all the time with chubby guys’ just like I see skinny guys’ with chubby girls’ , so everyone has their own preferences of what they like or don’t like

[EzraIsShy76028]

Depends on the girl.

Usually older women will be more into chubby guys than younger women though.

The "dad bod" is pretty trendy among-st older women.

Normally gaining weight is normal as you age and your metabolism gets slower.

For a young man to be overweight though he would usually have to be extremely physically inactive and/or just eating way more food than his body can burn.

So basically, the younger you are the less leniency you have on being overweight, but the older you get the more leniency you have.

[overlord337645]

while im a guy i would say this i like plus size girls but after a certain point is unnatractive now I dont know your situation but I can say sometimes working on ourselves will help us find our partner without trying. a good example is I liked this girl a few months back and thought she was super great and she did not talk to me for 5 months until she told me off and finally when she did I thought it was the end of the world but now I realized that God was prepareing me for later in life and on top of that a few weeks later I noticed another girl I liked instead not only did I get prepared for later but I realized that I needed to take a step back and give women more space with things in life mabie here God is giving you a chance to work on yourself so the girl of your dreams will come along at the right moment

[FreyaRed]

Lose weight. 10kg can change massively attractiveness level and this isn't only valid for boys. That's why half of girls between 12-25 are obsessed with weight and fall in eating disorder and bulimia because they think losing 10kg more will increase their attractiveness level even more.

[silvermoon84]

I’m indifferent to weight for the most part. Last boyfriend was fat most of his life (not saying that to be mean, but he was a big guy). I liked his personality and liked being with him. We ended up breaking up (but his weight wasn’t the reason for the breakup). but I would date another big guy as long as he was nice and treated me well.

[American_dawg]

A lack of discipline leads to obesity. When is the last time you saw a morbidly obsese person doing anything that requires discipline? Girls need a partner who has discipline. They need structure, and order. They need to be punished -- any girl who tells you otherwise is a liar, which is another problem entirely from greed and gluttony, but I digress.

[Random_g]

From first glace maybe you will get ignored, because everyone has a type.. For me it's skinny small guys..
But when it comes to liking someone or feeling attracted, you'll never know what does it for you, it may be just a glance or a way of holding a pen ( talking from my experience)
So you're fine

[katiesmuff]

First define chubby? However I see it a lot if a guy has a good personality, is outgoing and humorous it is amazing how many girls will get drawn to him.

[Anonymous]

Always been fit myself. I couldn't live with that mentality. It would be grating.

Same goes for the chisled man though. They tend to be way too intense.

There are woman who would fit with you.

[MemeSupreme]

you are literally so many girl's type lol

like i have friends from high school who'd tell me they ONLY date big guys

[ErzebethBathory]

My boyfriend is a little chubby, but not obese. He was that way when I met him and I don't mind at all, he's physically attractive to me and he's got a lot more to offer than just looks.

[Mon1to]

yeah, why not?
if you're loyal and have a kind heart, appearance isn't that important

[exitseven]

I was a fat kid that started working out in high school/ I can tell you that girls never paid any attention to me when I was fat.

[Renegade_Sailor]

Get your ass to the gym. They rarely like the chub.

[Kingofkings1992]

A little over overweight is usually fine, but obese is not attractive. Put some muscle on too, be confident, have good hygiene and you should be fine

[Anonymous]

Depends on how big the guy is , if he looks like Chris Farley that would be a turn off to me, but a slight stomach is fine.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, maybe if the guy is rich.

[lyrem04]

I wouldn’t mind depends how big tho

[itsannalee]

There are a lot women like chubby guy, but not me.

[Sophia001]

If he is really rich

[Anonymous]

You probably smell of sweat.

[PeachyPie93]

And your gaping hole of a cunt probably smells like a fish market..

[Shiprex]

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[PeachyPie93]

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[Shiprex]

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[Zforce194]

It really depends on the woman

[beefcakebradybatson]

Some.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope