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I've been dating my boyfriend (online relationship) for a full year - there's an age gap of 6 years (I'm older) and our races are different. I was supposed to meet him last summer, but he broke up with me once over the fact that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me. I'm his first girlfriend and he didn't know what to expect. He didn't like that I wasn't blonde and feared our future because of our differences. He hurt me a lot with his lack of faith in our relationship and promised me he wouldn't do it again. We ended up somehow making it through that and decided to meet again this summer.

He asked his parents 2 days ago if he could meet me and his dad had 3 issues:
1) age (he believes that it never works when the woman is older)
2) race/culture (obviously there are gaps, but I love him and if he loves me, we can make it through.. we Skype every day with dinner.. so we know how we eat anyway.. things like food shouldn't be an issue)
3) religion (we are the same religion, so this one wasn't an issue)

He took all his dad's words and examples into consideration and is now doubting our relationship again.. after a full year. We were so close to meeting and now he wants to meet on terms of "not a guaranteed reationship" and is not sure how he feels about me. What do I do? I've done so much for him this past year.. I've gone out of my way to make him happy and he turns around and hurts me so easily.

ps: Just two weeks ago.. he hung up on me in the middle of a call when we were having a disagreement and deleted me from Skype just to see how it would be like to be without me. He added me back after a day.. saying he missed me. This is all just crap.. Please help me clear my mind. He said he will not make up his mind until he meets me.. what should I do?