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I've been working with this girl at a second job. I used to see her 1-2x a week. Well the place we worked at is having some issues with their liquor license, so its shut down temporarily. We had plans to meet up at the place we worked at on Friday because I wouldn't see her Thursday since she had off that day. Well little did we know the place would be shut down by the end of the week.

Anyways, we talked about what happened and that maybe we could meet up on Friday night to go out. Well we ended up doing that. She texted me at like 1030 asking where I was, she knew I was pre-gaming at my place with my sister and her friends and my friends, becuase I had invited her and her friends to come and join us. Anyways she asked where i was and I told her we were leaving shortly, I didn't get to the club till around 1115? We met up, took some shots, danced, were VERY VERY close to one another (as far as face and body goes). I was so tempted to just kiss her and spark things up a little. I never did, but I'll tell you why shortly. First I'd like to tell you what happened the rest of the night.

Before she left with her friends to go to another club, she tapped me on eh shoulder and kissed me, but I wasn't really expecting it, I t wasn't like make out or anything, just a kiss...

I texted her about 10-20 min later and asked where she was, she ended up being where I was, she came over and found me and we danced some more and again, very close to one another...nothing happened there either. OK so now its 2am and its closing time so me and my buddy start walking home. she's texting me and all and we text till about 330...simple stuff, like what's up, wanna hang out, asking her if she's OK and if she needs me to get her and her friends since they aren't from the city really. We continue to flirt through text.

here's the deal - I like this girl, but I'm scared...now lets go back to where I told you I didn't kiss her or attempt to - why you ask? OK this is why...she has a boyfriend! AHHHH it figures, the one girl I start to crush hard on (after my 3 year relationship that ended horribly) has to have a bf.

it seems she likes me, but is scared? maybe because she isn't sure what to do with her bf? I mean she did kiss me, we have the craziest sexual tension between each to her...it feels great when we hang out and we both love each other company...

so what's my next step? I'm not a relationship destroyer but I mean, she doesn't have a ring on her finger and I've no where made attempts to be "that guy". I haven't spoken to her since Friday night Because she has been away, but I haven't made any attempts. Would it be wrong to send her a text just saying "hi" today?...do I wait for her to text me?

i know ill be judged and called a scum bag Because she has a boyfriend, but she came onto me...i never once made her to forced her to do anything she didn't want to do...

advice? what do I do? what are my next steps?

So I'm 22

1. I don't have my beginner's/learners license, I never really wanted to spend money on license/gas/insurance blah blah never interested me. I preferred to save all that money and use public transportation for everything. Done it for 4 years and saved lots of money.

2. I still live at home with my parents because rent is expensive, pay for groceries, heating etc. For the last year I've had to start paying rent/month, way cheaper then other rent. Because again I like to save money.

3. I never been to a university yet, 4 years after completing grade 12, just really don't know what to do with myself, and going to university just to get a degree and not know what to do with it is a waste of money. Must I say again I like to save money.

So without driving and home with my parents NO I do not plan this still when I'm 30. I am actually going to get my license this year. I do actually plan to be a bus driver learning the bus system etc. after beginners license, the take a busing license. I have a bank account which charges me $5 to withdraw from it which is how I save money and where 3/4 of my pay cheques go form jobs over the years. 1/4 in regular account, that's how I save over the years.

So living at home with parents/Not driving/Not having a good career job yet may look unattractive as so people say,

but the reasons for it are saving lots of money and using it when needed still unattractive instead of blowing it on whatever. Some also says having lots of money attracts girls too, except stay away from the ones who use you because you have it.

So I`m asking could you look at it in this way instead of a slobbish way?