Ok, so this is who I was 1 Year ago
Happy, confident, popular, fun loving, good looking guy
Awesome paying Job
Huge social circle and a lot of respect from everyone
My own place, car, truck, atv, nice clothes, money to burn
Then I started dating my best friend. It was great at first. Amazing chemistry, never fought, all the trust. Felt like true love. Then I lost my license. I tell my girlfriend I'm going to be going up and doing work in a work camp for 2 weeks at a time, with one week off. (6600$ Paycheque each 2 weeks). Girlfriend doesn't like that idea. Begs me not to go. I dont. I spend the night at the girlfriends house a couple of times. Girlfriends dad tells me he has gotten me a job with him, and I was going to be staying with them until I get my license back (5.5Months). Move stuff out of my own place, slightly bad feeling about it but thought I'm dating my best friend, her family loves me. What could go wrong? I work with her dad a month or so, girlfriend is slowly getting more and more jealous, and controlling. Starts texting me at work, and pretty much has to be with me all the time when I'm not at work. Starts questioning every bit of time I spend away from her. Girlfriend is stuck to me like glue at parties and get togethers, but as my friends told me, was always watching me to see if I was looking at girls? I start getting worn down.
After 3 months, girlfriend has begun going through my phone, checking my facebook, having her girlfriends watch me when I'm not at home. (Never cheated in my life and all my time was spent WITH HER). I started having less and less of a social life to avoid fights. Figuring it will get better in time (Dumb ass).
1 More month and she has begun telling me to tell and girl that is friendly or tries to talk to me to "Fuck off" or she would. I tell her I'm not a d***, I'm not going to flirt with other girls but I'm not going to be an asshole for no reason either. That caused massive fight.
1 Month after that there is a big party she wants me to go to. I don't want to go because there are old female friends there who would want to talk to me which would cause a fight (odd mentality I had developed eh?) I ask her If she just wants to take my truck and go with her friends, and that I would see her later in the night. She freaks out and guilt trips me into coming. I get there, sure enough there's old female friends that come and talk. Girlfriend gets angry. We wind up getting into a fight. I leave. Id had it. I was tired of getting sh*t for nothing. Tired of being on a leash. I call a break.
I go to my friends place and start working out religiously, and get a line on the job I was going to do months ago.
Girlfriend gets into coke, spreads rumors about me to the whole town (cheater, a liar, Gay, Drug user). And hooks up with a bunch of my friends, and finds any girls that might have interest in me and tells them lies about me, and basically started hating me with a passion.
I don't feel anything like myself. FML
Happy, confident, popular, fun loving, good looking guy
Awesome paying Job
Huge social circle and a lot of respect from everyone
My own place, car, truck, atv, nice clothes, money to burn
Then I started dating my best friend. It was great at first. Amazing chemistry, never fought, all the trust. Felt like true love. Then I lost my license. I tell my girlfriend I'm going to be going up and doing work in a work camp for 2 weeks at a time, with one week off. (6600$ Paycheque each 2 weeks). Girlfriend doesn't like that idea. Begs me not to go. I dont. I spend the night at the girlfriends house a couple of times. Girlfriends dad tells me he has gotten me a job with him, and I was going to be staying with them until I get my license back (5.5Months). Move stuff out of my own place, slightly bad feeling about it but thought I'm dating my best friend, her family loves me. What could go wrong? I work with her dad a month or so, girlfriend is slowly getting more and more jealous, and controlling. Starts texting me at work, and pretty much has to be with me all the time when I'm not at work. Starts questioning every bit of time I spend away from her. Girlfriend is stuck to me like glue at parties and get togethers, but as my friends told me, was always watching me to see if I was looking at girls? I start getting worn down.
After 3 months, girlfriend has begun going through my phone, checking my facebook, having her girlfriends watch me when I'm not at home. (Never cheated in my life and all my time was spent WITH HER). I started having less and less of a social life to avoid fights. Figuring it will get better in time (Dumb ass).
1 More month and she has begun telling me to tell and girl that is friendly or tries to talk to me to "Fuck off" or she would. I tell her I'm not a d***, I'm not going to flirt with other girls but I'm not going to be an asshole for no reason either. That caused massive fight.
1 Month after that there is a big party she wants me to go to. I don't want to go because there are old female friends there who would want to talk to me which would cause a fight (odd mentality I had developed eh?) I ask her If she just wants to take my truck and go with her friends, and that I would see her later in the night. She freaks out and guilt trips me into coming. I get there, sure enough there's old female friends that come and talk. Girlfriend gets angry. We wind up getting into a fight. I leave. Id had it. I was tired of getting sh*t for nothing. Tired of being on a leash. I call a break.
I go to my friends place and start working out religiously, and get a line on the job I was going to do months ago.
Girlfriend gets into coke, spreads rumors about me to the whole town (cheater, a liar, Gay, Drug user). And hooks up with a bunch of my friends, and finds any girls that might have interest in me and tells them lies about me, and basically started hating me with a passion.
I don't feel anything like myself. FML
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