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I've kinda been wanting to have sex with my friend. We are both girls. We've joked about it a lot and have had real conversations about it the other night at the bar.
Now.. should this actually happen.. nothing would happen. We would be able to even if we both have boyfriends. Which we do.. our men both have the same rule.

"As long as I get to watch."

Only thing is, as much as mine claims that, he does tell me he doesn't want anyone else having me. He selfish, and I love it.
Now the only reason I'm opposed to it, i dont think i want her boyfriend seeing me.
I guess that is the problem. I wouldn't mind just doing it without them watching. (Obviously I guess..)
Anyhow. I've thought about it, if we would have sex, with or without the men watching, would it really be just sex?
In the hypothetical conversation of doing so, me and her have already promised each other that it wouldn't change anything or hurt our friendship.
But if we would, could we really do it as friends? Or is it more so a possibility that one of us would end up falling?
I dont want to ruin our friendship. I won't if I can avoid it.

What do you think?

Johnny is 18 years old. He has a girlfriend named Olivia. Johnny tuned down sex with her several time. Olivia goes through his phone and sees he's talking to a girl named Sophia and he gives her answers to homework. She bursts into the bathroom while Johnny is peeing and screams Johnny! Are you fucking cheating? Johnny says wha- what are you talking about? I'm not having sex with anyone! Yes you are she screams, then who's this? And shows him Sophia on the phone. Johnny, you no good sack of shit!!! Johnny says get out, I'm still in the bathroom she screams no, you explan to me why you are talking to her! I'm helping Sophia with her homework, is that a problem? Olivia keeps yelling and screaming at Johnny, she kicks hits him, punches him and calls him every name in the book. She even grabbed his penls violently. Johnny bites his lip and says nothing.

A week later, she made Johnny some water and told him she was sorry. The water tasted funny and after a few hours of being outside with a bunch of kids, Johnny felt his stomach twist and turn, the pain was insane and he could barely make it to the bathroom. He had to leave early. Johnny nearly cried because he was so embarrassed. He avoided her for four days so he could calm down but they still stayed together. He bought her a nice new dress, kissed her, hugged her and even let her see and touch his private area even though he really didn't feel comfortable with her doing so. She was so happy and smiley and Johnny felt happy as well.

Looking back on our relationship my ex would withdraw heavily if I stressed him out, even block me or ignore me. If, for example, I demanding more than he was willing to give of his time or commitments he would push me away, he would get irritated at seeing me cry or having to listen to me "complain" about things I expected out of the relationship. He also suffered from bad insomnia and would stay up for the majority of the night, sometimes he would not even sleep at all. When he was with me, I would help him sleep by holding him, rubbing his head, or more commonly having "nighttime activities" that left him exhausted and ready to go to sleep. Speaking of which, that's one thing he seemed to go above and beyond for. The oppertunity to sleep wuth me was never taken for light, he would come at any time or drive long distnaces to pick me up so that we could have sex, but if it were for things like dates or just to see me in his free time he would be "too busy". He would tell me his problems, cry on my shoulder sometimes, rant, sometimes ask for advice but mostly he would just let off steam. I was happy to help but I felt completely unsupported by him. I think he only saw me as a stress reliever and not like a person he loved.