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I'm not saying my boyfriend is racist or anything. He's a white guy, Scottish and I'm a black girl Scottish as well. We went to school together and now we are dating. We have been dating for 2months now and he's met my mum and baby brother for a small bit. I notice little signs such as sometimes when we walk in the street a small amount of people just stare mostly old or black people for no reason. It's so annoying. Also he does this thing which is beginning to annoy me. For example when we were walking out the mall he saw his ex from 5years ago, who we both went to school with and he had his arm around me and he said 'oh look there's cat' and his arm all of a sudden dropped from my waist and he put his hands in his pockets. its not as though she was popular or anything I find a threat. Then after 30secs he wrapped his hands around me. Also we were walking in town one day and we were very close and touching and stuff and then he just moved away and I was like 'why are you walking that far' and he said 'oh I just saw my cousin. I was like oh okay. I have not met his parents but he always tells me 'oh they'd like you' and stuff plus he hasn't even told them he has a girlfriend who is black😂 or a girlfriend at all. Also I know most grandparents are racist and both his are alive so... but he's never said anything about anyone being racist. Is he ashamed of me. Whenever he suggests anything that involves his parents eg we came out the cinema at 1am and taxis were talking a long time and he said he'd get his dad to pick us up and I said no. I always say I don't want to meet his parents but I feel as though he just doesn't want me to ever meet them. Does he not want to be seen with me. Even though he's always kissing/cuddling on the streets where everyone can see. What should I do? Also on most of my social media it shows that I'm in a relationship with him and I always include him on my snapchat stories and he always want to be on them but NEVER has he never put me on any of his social media or snapchats or anything. He's a nice guy and I know he wouldn't cheat on me cause I'm out of his league looks wise. Not meaning to be stuck up or big headed. Any advise?

I know times have change and all that, however I'm in a relationship with the most humble, lovely guy who is white. I'm black. Both from the UK. We are both nearly 18. He seems serious about our relationship and I am too. He is always asking if my parents will like him and obviously I say yes and he has said his parents will like me also. HOWEVER we have never had a discussion about our different races. What if his parents don't approve of him dating a person of colour? I know some parents still do that and I don't think it makes them racist. I'm scared incase his family gets disappointed in him for dating me and I plan on avoiding to meet them because I don't want to go through an awkward moment when they just look at me as though I'm imposing. Are your parents like this or know anything similar? Also how can I bring this issue up to my boyfriend?