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Why was I the sidechick? How can I move on?

I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I am 21 years old and I fell in ove with this guy who I met around a year ago. When I met him he told me he was single and we started dating and became exclusive. We...
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I accused my boyfriend of cheating on me when he wasn't. He said he wants to breakup because of my lack of trust. What should I do?

I accept the fact that I'm insecure and the cause of insecurity is his behaviour in the beginning of our relationship, but now I can't help myself from doubting on him. And today I ended up accusing him of cheating when...
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"ANYONE can change!" . . . Right, but how often do people actually change in any significant way?

Young people like to intone things like "but he can change" when they are trying to justify staying with a bad partner. Yes, the statement is theoretically true. A bad partner is capable of changing their behavior and...
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Young people like to intone things like "but he can change" when they are trying to justify staying with a bad partner. Yes, the statement is theoretically true. A bad partner is Show More
I've never been in a serious relationship.
I've been in a relationship but never had a partner who I thought needed to make any significant changes.
I've been in relationships and had partners who needed to make big changes, but they never wanted to change and never tried to change. . . and now, we're history!
I've been in relationships and had partners who needed to make big changes, said they wanted to change, but they never tried. . . and now, we're history!
I've been in relationships and had partners who needed to make big changes, they said they wanted to change, and they tried. . . but failed. . . and now, we're history!
I've been in relationships and had partners who needed to make big changes, they said they wanted to change, and they actually made some changes. . . but we still didn't stay together.
I've been in relationships and had partners who needed to make big changes, they said they wanted to change, and they actually made some changes. . . and we stayed together.
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Would you be able to stay in a relationship when you think your partner has feelings for someone else?

My boyfriend and I broke up during a time where I had a lot going on in my life and I pushed him away. I was the one who ended things, I was very ugly and took everything out on him. He didn’t want to break up but I...
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Have you ever suffered from Postpartum depression?

Ok so for the women, have any of you suffered from it? Did you get medicated for ot and were the side effects worth it? For the men, if your woman was suffering from postpartum depression and it manifested itself as...
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Love at first sight...Merely a delusion!

This is a rather debatable topic and I might as well receive mixed responses. My definition of Love at first sight , is only on the basis of physical appearance. I guess good looking people are lucky? Or born lucky...
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How would you deal with the subconscious belief that you aren't worth much by yourself?

To put in context, for the longest time I've had like a constant battle within myself. This idea that I as a man am fundamentally worthless unless i'm making a decent amount of money. Looks, Personality none of that...
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How do you move on from the past and get over of losing friends?

I can’t stop dwelling on the past and my past mistakes I feel guilt, shame and confused about things. Growing up I always felt like I never fitted in which meant that I was never 100% comfortable with myself I had low...
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Why do women lose interest when a guy accepts her for what she is?

At the beginning id call a girl out over her bad behaviour and react upset. She learned to be better on most things, but a year or 2 after when i fell in love with her i didn't mind some of her habits and behaviours...
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How guys should overcome a negative mindset with regards to dating!

This is mostly based on my experience, So for the last 8 months, I kept playing the victim to a failed relationship. It filled my head with all these negative thoughts like I am undateable, that I was the problem. But...
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Ex told me to move on?

My ex and I were together 4 years, he left our relationship 7 months ago but kept coming back every other month asking to try again. It never got off the ground. The last contact was May when he told me he loved me and...
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How to stop being anxious in a relationship?

We've been together for almost a year, we've had a bunch of arguments lately (because of small things, nothing big) but overall we're having fun, we love each other. He's attentive, sweet and I know he loves me so much...
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How to analyse what kind of emotional setback my relationship with my parents is because I feel emotionally detached from them?

Ever since I was a child. I never got taught respect so I'm always told I'm disrespectful now whenever I unintentionally get sensitive , upset and angry. My mum was a angry housewife for the most parts acting like a...
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How to bring up conversations with boyfriend?

How do I bring up a conversation of how I’m feeling or my insecurities with my boyfriend? We kind of are in a new relationship, and I want to know how to bring those conversations up. I don’t want to just blurt it out you...
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Taking that risk?

I'm scared of building relationships with people because I'm worried about not being enough for the them and that I may let them down. (what about my feelings, right? Stupid.. 😒 The thing is that I want to create...
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I don’t want to end the relationship, but she needs to lose weight and be less lazy. Is it bad that I want her to change things?

Hear me out before you judge by the title. I’m 23 and so is my girlfriend. We both have steady jobs, I work in a corporate office and she works in a bakery only 80%. We met about one and a half years ago at a party and...
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Rigid Masculine Gender Role Adherence & The Connection to Violence and Hostility Against Women

A message I received today... "you young lady deserve a thurough raping so you can learn the value of a strong police force. maybe if something bad happens to your family or your vagina you'll understand why law and order...
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Should I be bothered by my boyfriend’s relationship history/ past experiences?

From what I heard, my boyfriend was known as a f*ckboy before he met me and used to have a lot of casual hookups. Even though it’s been a year of us dating, his friends still sometimes bring it up as banter in front of us...
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Boyfriend won’t remove ex off of Instagram?

I told my ex that having his ex on his Instagram made me uncomfortable. He has lied to me in the past, and while we were dating (not in a relationship) he was having sexual relations with other women. I have been asking...
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