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So my boyfriend and I were planning on going to Santa Barbara today for a date, he was going to drive down from Berkeley and pick me up at 11am the next morning (today). Yesterday he texts me and says he’s too tired to drive that night and he’d leave early the next morning. I totally get it, it’s a three hr drive, I don’t really drive at night either. So this morning I get up early to get ready and get all cute. I call him at 10 to see where he’s at. He had just woken up. So at this point I have to wait another 3 hours at least until he can pick me up, and it’s another hour to the beach. I kinda want to cancel the date, but I don't know if that’s an overreaction? What do y’all think?

I was talking to a guy for about 6 months or so. We met online & due to covid we weren't able to see each other, we got really close really fast. Things were good but then he began to have doubts at 5 months & talked about a break for a while until we could see each other. 6 months he officially said to go on a break and if i found someone it was okay. Things were good, we would talk, he would call me beautiful & said his dad asked about us. Mind you this was about 2 weeks ago. A week ago i texted him telling him i missed him and i got no response or anything. I waited and doubled texted and then triple texted a couple days later this past Friday, the 23rd, he posted a picture of him with a girl and the caption said "hot girl summer WHO? #datenight #couplegoals #covid_19 #romantic" I saw it when i opened insta and i liked it and he blocked me on everything. Days later he messaged me and deleted the picture, he said he didn't know what he's doing with himself. He also said "The one person i posted, like I don't know, they approached me and i was like hey let's give this a try i guess. I blocked you like an immature guy then boom it doesn't work, i reflect on myself and i feel like an idiot who feels like i do everythin wrong. I probably hurt you and probably ruined that chance. I get left for somethin stupid and now i feel like i ruined everythin this is why i have commitment issues and its my own damn fault." then he does on to say he is unhappy and insecure. tried to fill the void when he isn't happy with himself. He also apologized for blocking me. The things I asked for were to never block me & to please tell me if he ever found anyone. He did the exact opposite & apologized I've thought about this, he did bring up taking a break and told me what he did like he reached out. But i don't want to be an afterthought but have feelings for him, i can't fully trust but i want to be friends.. Let me know what u think

I have been dating this guy since 2 months, and I haven't felt emotionally connected to him because he doesn't make an effort to actually get to know me. We do talk a little on tex and have some sweet talk, but we never talk on call.

We did talk about it and he also feels like there's no emotional investment and that the relationship is TOO CASUAL. He doesn't want anything casual and wants something serious.

But then he isn't making an effort to do things for me. I feel like he just does some sweet talk but never shows that he cares about me. I even told him that good communication is the key and that the lack of communication is a problem. He agrees with me but never does anything.

Should I break up instantly or do I wait it out? Please tell me