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I'm not sure what to make of this. The few people I've encountered that did me wronged or treated me horrible, something bad always happened to them. I'll list 3 people.
- My HS bully that turned others against me: She ended a women's shelter because her alcoholic boyfriend would beat her
- A past cheating ex boyfriend from college: His business permanently shut down and he had to start from the bottom at another company.
- A guy's mother who treated me horrible and insulted my parents: She suddenly started having health issues and got diagnosed with diabetes

If this isn't karma I don't know what to call it. I never wished for anything bad to happen to others. I certainly don't even want my worst enemy to become sick nor die. I really want nothing happen but it's like I can't stop it nor have control over it. Bad things have happened to anyone that treated me horrible, bullied or betrayed me badly.

My boyfriends main love language is acts of service. He wants me to cook, clean, take care of the dogs. Initially he wanted me to do the majority, but then lets split chores. He doesn’t acknowledge that I always keep everything stocked whether it is groceries, soap, toilet paper, his favorite drinks. He doesn’t acknowledge I take care of the dogs 3/4 of the time. He always complains he is picking up my mess, but the reality is we are about even. What I mean by that is I will leave my morning coffee in the sink and he gets upset that I didn’t put it in the dish washer, but then he will make a breakfast for himself &leave all of the dirty dishes. He usually loads the washer &I dry &fold it. He also washes clothes 3x more than I do. So if we have 3 loads maybe 10 things are mine. Last night I had a bad day at work. I made dinner &told him about the day. He was doing the laundry this time, but I wasn’t feeling helping out too much this evening. He got upset that I didn’t put up all the clothes even though I have always folded them and we had always put our own stuff away. I did the dishes and he got mad I missed a utensil. He frantically ran around and kept mouthing how some day it’s got to get better. I am not sure if all of this is normal for someone whose main love language is service. I understand I can always be better, but I had a hard day and I was contributing he was talking to me like I’m worthless then he slept on the couch and left this morning without a word. No matter the fights we get in he always kisses me in the morning. He didn’t take care of the dogs. I don’t always want to fight for what I have and haven’t done. I don’t want to keep a list and tally, but this is kind of strange to me. The crazy part is I found out he lied to me about cheating on his ex wife this weekend and he wanted to kiss me the next morning and I was really upset and he in return got upset so I feel like his standards for me are a little crazy based on his standards of himself.

In your opinion what might have caused him to see something totally different to what I wrote? Beside the poll options.
2) And did this ever happen to you and why
We keep connected by video call when he is at work (, sleeps there) and otherwise and he calls even when he is tired. We had not called in (about a week).. I did feel bad having to respond with my list of busy things that I was doing after he smiled at me and said he was doing nothing.. I sort of felt like he was expecting to see me via a call. I don't know.
We have called since (yay) but I like delving into the male mind a bit.
This ever happened to you? Why do you think he read wrong?