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A couple months ago, I slept with a guy who is in my friendship circle but don't really consider him as a friend.
Went to a friends house for a party, got pretty drunk and he offered to walk me home. He ended up walking into the house with me and getting into bed. Me being drunk, I didn't know what I was doing and we ended up having sex.

Afterwards he told me not to tell his girlfriend.
I feel guilty, I feel disgusted with myself and I think if I had a boyfriend I would want someone to tell me he's cheating/has cheated on me so I know I'm not living in a relationship full of lies.

I've not talked to him since but he still comments and likes stuff on fb page. I feel better telling her and having to deal with whatever reaction she gives me but I also don't want to be the reason for the heartbreak either.

Should I tell her?

We were together for 8 months... Almost... We were literally ALWAYS together. We lived on a campus together and had the same classes.
So here's the back story. The depth of our feelings for each other has always been undeniable to anyone who sees us together. Everyone can see how deeply in love we are.
However, after being together for about a month and a half we left school for summer break. He went back home to Alabama and I went back home to Tennessee for 2.5 weeks. Over the summer break he relapsed on his drug addiction and cheated on me at a house party. He admitted it to me, after lying the first time i asked. I immediately forgave him because had he not been high and drunk i believe he wouldn't have done it. It's just not who he is. Then he turned around and broke up with me. Told me "I love you, but i'm not in love with you." July 2015. We were split for 3 days before he decided he wanted to get back together. Then a week later he broke up with me again. We started "talking" again a couple weeks later, but hadn't officially gotten back together. During that "talking" period he fucked some nasty whore at school and lied to me about it for a month. September 2015. I almost left that time, but decided not to. So we moved to Iowa together after we graduated. December 2015. We were there a month when he randomly tells me that he's not in love with me anymore, he's not been happy since before we left school, but he thought things would be different once we moved here and he doesn't think he'll ever be happy with me. His reason for being unhappy is bc ever since he cheated i am paranoid and jealous in the extreme. Like bad. He got sick of it, so that's why he left me. He didn't expect his mom to kick me out afterwards. He wanted to "take a break or break up at least for awhile." He didn't want me to leave though. He says, "I love you, buti'm not in love with you." Just like he did the first time. He didn't mean itthen and i don't believe he means it now. So now i just got to Dallas today and he's still in Iowa. He legit started sobbing when he dropped me off at my hotel. He hasn't texted me or called me yet though. I planned on trying to whole 2 week N. C thing, but i'm afraid he'll just think i've moved on and then move on himself. Do you think there's a chance? What should i do?

Hey guys, I've been cheated on 3 times. Non of the guys had the guts to tell me in person though. Their reason was being "drunk" 😂😂.
❓ have you ever been cheated on? Do you know why they did? How did you find out? What was your reaction?
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❓ have you cheated on your partner? Why? Did you tell them or did they find out? Was it worth it?