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We have been 1 year in a relationship with my foreign boyfriend. I used to visit him every week in the house that he and his foreign friend rented (they split bills). My family doesn't like my boyfriend and threatened him to kill. My boyfriend run away to another city and due to fear his friend left the house too.

In July, we were apart from my boyfriend and he blamed me I was destroying his life. He said he is going to find one rich girl to live together who won't bring him to trouble. I did not talk to my boyfriend for 2 weeks. Suddenly, On August, I was surprised he came back and was looking for me. He asked to stay together so fast in a new house and immediately transfer his things including car, big tv, other expensive things. During these months, my boyfriend is cold to me and rejected me many times of sex. I also caught him having so many condoms on his bag. One day, I saw a girl who keeps calling him every morning, afternoon, evening, I wonder why he doesn't take the calls and suddenly this girl text him, "Babe, how are you doing? and he named that girl as "Dianne GF" I was shocked and get mad at him. Saying bullshit! You already have another woman. Are you cheating on me? He denied and said "No, it is just a typo error. She is just a friend and he has an old foreigner.

On September-October, he went back to the City because he said he has to earn money to pay the house. This time we split bills together. I wonder why my boyfriend just visits me once to twice a week per month. I used to call him every day but he won't take my calls. Until in November, I wonder why he didn't go home yet and was only pressuring me to pay house bills. At late 2 AM, I keep calling him nonstop, he never accepts the call just texting I'm busy, I'm playing, don't disturb. At a later time, he accepted my call and gets mad "WHAT DO YOU WANT" I made excuses that I need help in house the faucet is broken. We talk for 20 minutes with my boyfriend.

I have a boyfriend for a month now but I am not sure if he loves me. We met really intense and that we had sex but he committed to me as his girlfriend. Throughout our relationship these are the positive and negatives things I have observed

Positive
- He hugs me after sex very close to his chest
- We shower together and our kiss has really meaning
- He is not afraid to show his vulnerability and lose of money
- He shared his dreams to me and plans in life , but mostly it’s him
- Whenever we go out , he always drop me at home safe. He always make sure I go home safe
- He talks to me everyday
- He loves cuddling and kissing me

Negative
- Because we are very far , he is pressuring me to go in his house and I I can’t he gets really mad and threatening me that he will look for other girls
- I saw him chatting many girls and even talking with his ex girlfriends and liking their picture
- I read a chat that he wants his ex girlfriends back
- He is pressuring me to co-sign a loan for him but promise to pay monthly
- He sometimes don’t listen to my stories and it seems like I have to listen to his always
- I paid every date that we had because he is broke
- He just introduces me to his friend as “Girl”
- He never ask how was my day and it’s always his that I needed to help him always with his problems