Search Results: have cake and eat it too

Of course I don’t judge all women for being the same. I don’t appreciate it when radical feminists throw all me men under the bus so I try to avoid overreaching labels.

The greatest minority is the individual. I’m a complex person and I can be often be argumentative. Not because I enjoy arguing I actually hate unnecessary conflict and drama. But at the end of the day I just want the best for everyone. I want the truth.

Unfortunately I am seeing more and more females on here who have this attitude that “they want to have their cake and eat it too”. I’ll call them out on it. I don’t care if someone’s emotions makes them “feel” like that bs is okay. I care about WHAT is right vs. BEING right. However I do want to commend a few women who have been exceptionally insightful and can provide good advice. It might not be always what i want to hear but I can tell they really are trying to give me the best advice.

But at the end of the day I will never know what’s really like to be a woman or vice versa. I am aware of my ignorance when it comes to that. It’s tough though. I have to constantly remind myself that women generally don’t think way men do. Our very brains are structured differently.

However I have been on and off GAG for 10 years now. From what I’ve seen women are generally getting worse on here and I know why: modern feminism. That’s not to say I haven’t met a few really awesome women out there. There have even been a few isolated incidents where I met a misguided yet well intentioned woman who identified as a “feminist”. They truly want to know what equality means. Unfortunately that label might of been accurate for these particular women in the 70s but definitely not today.

Anyway I admittedly come here to vent. Every once in a blue moon I do get good advice. But we are all just normal people not a bunch of well trained therapists. I think this website does more harm than good when it comes to my outlook on western women.

I keep thinking about this. Are e-thots and whores bad, lazy entitled, pieces of sh*t for human beings because they exploit losers and simps for money and take advantage of them like a typical drug dealer? Or are they just taking advantage of a broken system CAUSED by losers and simps?

Say tomorrow you woke up in the body of a 5'10" super-attractive 9 (or 9.5) out of 10 woman. Easily the hottest woman you've seen in your life, only you're looking at your new self in a mirror.

This question is for the fellas: Would you take advantage of this system if you had the same physical resources as these women? Or would you keep your dignity and respect, regardless of what assets you had to exploit? I'm curious.

- If yes, can you really blame or talk down to e-thots and whores online, being you'd do the same thing?

- If no, what is it inside you that keeps you from using shortcuts in life, taking the easy way out, and not selling your ass (and dignity) for cheap cash?

I think you guys already know I wouldn't do it. Easy money today doesn't erase a lifetime of a tarnished and ruined public reputation that'll haunt you long after gravity catches up with your body.

Unwanted pregnancies, abortions, STD's, infidelity, broken marriages, divorces... There's lots of reasons why sex work is frowned upon in society (not even necessarily what I believe; just valid reasons).

I'm not even saying "all sex work is bad." I'm just saying, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you're fine exchanging your respect from people in exchange for cash, then you do you. But you can't be a whore or worse, a lazy, half-assed, e-whore on OnlyFans and still expect people to respect you or take you seriously. This is the life you chose in exchange for a quick buck, while everyone else wasn't taking the easy way through life and doing sh*t their kids could actually be proud of them for, someday.

My ex girlfriend was a rotund husky girl with a big ol belly overhang, she had a really cute face and a tight 🐈 that more than made up for it tho her parents both were obese. I lived with her for 3 years and she didn't really eat that much but alas still fat. She said just looking at cake makes her fat. Meanwhile I am a super thin man that can blaze through a chocolate lava cake and never excercise. Maybe we are too hard on fat people.