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Ok, another one of my dumb questions.

Met this guy online, he is in Scandinavia and I'm in USA. We have a lot in common, talk every day. I find him interesting, hard to read, but I like that we have so much in common.

When we met he was planing on coming to USA and just got his tickets to come next month. He says very often "I wish I could hug you, I wish I was there, do you wish I was next to you?" He has never asked me for naked pics thank god, but the last 2 times we have video chatted, he has been in his underwear haha... He is into working out and I know he loves when someone complements his body. I am 5'3 and 213 pounds as of this morning so I dont know what he sees in me. But is he trying to like work me into having sex when he comes? I already told him that I'm not going to be doing that. But he comments a lot about wanting to be next to me in bed, which I want too but not for sex, I just hate sleeping alone... am i sending him mixed messages if I say "me too?"

First off, I've been with my boyfriend since September last year. I have met few of his friends (including his room mates). First i met his friends on new years eve.. I was wearing a short playsuit. And ever since then, I come over to his place on the weekends and yeah we have sex. He lives with many room mates by the way, and all of them are guys.
So anywhooo, whenever we finish having sex, we would take a shower (not together tho). And he would always tell me to wrap a towel of my bottom part and I do obviously because i only got underwear on. But then he kept saying "make sure it covers your legs"
He always says that before I leave the room to go to the bathroom.
And one time, it was a hot night and we wanted to go for a walk, and I wanted to wear shorts. And he said "no dont wear shorts"
And i asked why?
then he said "i dont want these guys looking at your legs"
what the fuxk? is there something wrong with my legs? why is it so important to cover my legs? why does he keep saying it? does he not like my legs or he genuinely thinks those guys will look at my legs? and so what if they do?

There's this guy I'm kinda interested in. He's a lot older than me though, 8 years older. He never seems to want to push things with me though, I think because he is older. He comments on his age a lot when we're talking. I like to think that we're both good people, but at the same time we both get high and drink. (Just cannabis, relax. And I don't even drink a lot. Last time I drank was new years.)
The other night though I had gotten high by myself, and he was buzzed he said. We weren't together, we were just texting. We started asking each other REALLY personal questions. Like he asked what kind of underwear I wore, then I asked how many girls he'd been with, he asked my bra size, and I asked his dick size. I also told him I'm a virgin. The next morning we were both kind of awkward about it but just brushed it off.

Now though he's promised that he could invite me over to smoke with him when our schedules are cleared up. We're also kinda planning to drink, only that's a loose sketch at this point because I'd end up having to stay over if we get drunk. And I'm just not sure like he wants, or what he's expecting. out of this, is he expecting sex?