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For me, personally, I came from a rather bitch ass family... not quite abusive, but very rude, and they never let me be what I truly wanted to me. Like my favorite passions have always been writing and drawing, but they wanted to force me to be a professional football player, even though I never cared for it. They also disliked my introverted loner personality style, and wanted to force me to be some sort of jock who brags all the time and his multiple women around him. Their words.

And I never quite had many friends, either, since my family's controlling behavior made me feel depressed, and I just wanted to be alone when I was depressed.

However, once I moved out from home and into college, without my parents knowing, I got into an art club, which would meet a few times a week.

And there, I met my girlfriend, my first true friend ever, and the first person I could truly be myself around without worrying about them judging me.

While I thought I had no problems as a loner, it was nice to have someone I could share my passions with rather than just keeping it all to myself. And at that, a very attractive slightly tanned brunette. Looks and personality, check. Likes me for who I am too... check.

I thought I was fine being alone, but having someone to share life with just made it so much better.

Not only that, but ever since I met her my confidence has been higher than ever, and I made a few good friends besides her as well. Nothing fancy, only about three close male friends I grab a beer or coffee with every week. But that's all I need. And before I had NONE, so it's an upgrade, totally.

So I was told that I would be making a promotional video for my college course and all the other students were rather jealous. I asked if it was just because I am student rep but my teacher said he chose me because of my speech and how I can talk in front of almost anyone without stuttering which I guess is true.

The subject at hand is that, during this jealous argument from the students, this American boy in my class shouted to the class that I am the best looking for the video... I was kind of surprised at the beginning but didn't display it because if it was a flirt, I wouldn't want to upset him.

Not to mention, I could list off the top of my head about 3 students who look better and more appropriate for the video, hell I know 2 that look like actual models!

This sort of resulted in a small number of students that I am not fond of accusing him of being gay and flirting with me which annoyed me, not all the class do that, it is only about 1-2 students in a class of 15.

Now the problem at hand is that if he only meant it as a compliment or flirting is difficult for me as I really dislike him but was polite during this situation as I didn't want to make him feel like he can't open up about his feelings without ridicule.

I honestly can't think of one thing I like about him while I can think of many things I dislike about him and how our personalities don't click AT ALL.

Please no homophobic comments, if you put any on here, they will be blocked or reported so be careful ;)

Oh and I know he is gay, he stated when he first joined that he is gay which must be difficult for a class of 15 with only 1 girl in the class :D

I am Bisexual like I have stated before but he is NOT my taste.

Please do help me with this, I don't know how to behave around him now, should I be the same or should I avoid him a bit more so he doesn't think I like him that way?

I've never been in this situation, I don't know how it works...

I saw video on YouTube about a man called Jono Lancaster. This man was abandoned at birth by his own two parents for being ugly. He has a disease which makes him look different.

I really do not see any reason for anybody to dislike his personality. He is a very nice man. If you watch videos on Youtube of Jono Lancaster you can see he is a very nice person.