My perspective is not for everyone. So if you have an opinion on something least you can do is be respectful .
Or don't lol but don't expect me to take you seriously.
This is more about why people perceive me or think of me as a bitch , not that I am an actual bitch or anything like that.
1. I'm very honest
If you ask me to give my honest judgement or opinion on something, I will. I won't be rude, but I won't hold back. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, people tend to associate honestly with criticism and negativity. It is not. Honesty can also be a positive thing. Some people are delusional and think the entire world is against them and they only focus on the bad things which distorts their vision of reality. Being honest with them actually helps most of the time , yes some aspects of life suck but other aspects don't and if you aren't focusing on some of the good things that happen to you, you will always see life just from a negative perspective.
People come to me for advice, some guys tell me they like my honesty and forwardness , others don't like it. Other women come to me for advice on guy problems because I apparently have the 'male perspective'. Lol I will get into that in the next point. Sometimes I lie though , if it will make someone get away from me quickly when I'm annoyed with them or if it will help me gain something from someone.
2. I'm very logical
Now you're thinking how does this factor into being a bitch? Well, being logical means I can't really help you out with much of anything to do with emotions. Some people find that rather cold and harsh, that I don't 'respect' their feelings. Some people admire this quality of mine , others don't. I do get called a bitch for it but I'm not going to change lol.
Now this is one of the reason as well why some girls come to me for advice on the 'Male perspective'. Because apparently men are more logical. Yes men are more logical on average, but women can learn to lead with their logical thinking instead of their emotions. At the end of the day we have a brain and self control for a reason. It is a bit offensive but more funny than anything that people don't think women can be logical.
3. Women are 'supposed to be' nice
Yeah I'm not a complete asshole, but I'm not nice either. I don't understand why people expect of me to smile at them or be nice, even a complete pushover some people consider that being a nice person, just because I'm a female. I get it, women are seen as 'weaker, smaller, emotional, nice, soft' blah blah blah.
Yeah, I don't give a shit for any of that. If people want a woman like that and want to treat her better, go ahead. If I don't like you and you bother me, I'll tell you with a straight face that I dislike you and that you're bothering and I walk away. If you're being an asshole, I will stand up for myself. I don't care if it is 'unwomanly'. If I am ever the leader or the boss of something, I will be hard on everybody, I would still be fair, but you won't have an easy time working with me.
4. I can't sugarcoat
I can't sugarcoat things or say them in a nicer way. I can't give fake compliments. Someone recently told me that no matter who the person is, they will always get offended if I don't say something in a better and nicer more PC way. Yeah fuck that lol. If I wanna say something, I say it just the way I mean. No more and no less. If you do stupid shit while I'm present (not the type of stupid for fun, I mean something no other human being does and it is deemed cringy. For example I know this guy who pretends to talk to himself and acts like an autist on purpose to get attention, I find him pathetic obviously.
Another guy I know chases girls all day and tells them the dumbest shit ever, it's funny because he based all his confidence on the validation and approval he may get from girls, sadly he doesn't get any lol) i'll laugh in your face . I might even ask you 'wtf?' Most likely I'd just find it funny and laugh.
5. I like being a 'bitch'
Which makes people think I'm even more bitchy. Lol I quite enjoy it actually, people getting easily offended and not wanting to see things the way they are, and get mad at me just for speaking the truth.
6. I am not easily offended
Of course I do get offended at certain things, I won't lie. We all do. What I mean though is if you come up to me and tell me things like 'your *insert something about my looks/body part/style etc* is ugly/disgusting/stupid ' I'll just laugh and say 'okay'. Or I'll give you a witty comeback. This makes some people go craaaazy. I mean they get insane mad when I don't give them what they want. This is also quite funny, I mean did you really think I was gonna cry over it? Hah.
7. I'm extremely professional
Even in everyday life. I don't let anything make me less professional, not attraction, anger, biases, dislike for someone etc. I can work with anyone in this entire world, as long as they remain professional as well. Even If I hate them. This also makes people think I'm cold and uptight, and that because I'm not as sociable as they want me to be, it makes me 'the bitch' lol.
8. I have resting bitch face
If you don't know what that means basically it is when someone has no emotional expression in their face and they have that cold and dead poker faced look. That's just how my face is. I don't care for smiling, I only smile at people or pets I like. Other than that I'm not responsible for giving you a smile. Sorry, I know it is nice to be nice to others, but this is just something I won't do. If a stranger smiles at me though or says hello, I will smile at them. Occasionally that does happen. Any other situation and I will always have a poker face. It also makes people talk to me less, or not at all which is great.
This take is just for fun and not to be taken too seriously. I enjoy my self and my personality, and if some people can't handle it because I'm not what the standard nice sociable non bitch person is like, then they can just kiss my big ass.
This does cause social issues but I'm not a social person. If I get asked out on a date I say not interested, no matter who the person is. If someone tries to befriend me and they aren't the type of friend I want, or I know they want to befriend me for some kind of benefit, I'll just block you completely, even in real life as well.
Have a good day.