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We've been dating for a little over 1 year. I'm 25 with a 7 year old son, he's 23 with no children. Lately our relationship has been in the toilet. Around Thanksgiving & Christmas it was like we were finally over the nonsense things in our relationship. We were 100% happy. The problems started around New Years. I was really excited & he knew that I was excited for our first new years together. I dreamed of a nice dinner, drinking some things to get us feeling nice, talking, laughing, sharing. What happened? Quite the opposite. I went to Atlantic City with my very very responsible sister who doesn't drink doesn't smoke doesn't hang out with wrong crowds AT ALL. He was upset because he wanted to go, he was invited but didn't come. New Years Eve morning I call him to say what are we doing tonight, & he says "Well I am having a party, I don't know what you're doing." This was odd because A. He doesn't hang out with many fiends ever, & B. He would normally mention something like that. I could tell he was mad because I went on a day trip. So I let it go. I ended up at this party that I didn't want to be at. I drank not even a lot but somehow managed to throw up the whole night. He knew I was sick & I begged him to send everyone home they were very loud & acting reckless in his house. He continued playing beer pong while I died upstairs. When he realized how sick I was (passing out in my own puke) He told his friends to leave. It was a bad night. Not to mention he invited this girl who is absolutely in love with him. Thinking I wouldn't be there. 3 days later I was back at his house. He told me he didn't like me having FB messenger because he doesn't like men talking to me. That same night he left his phone home which I of course snooped through. He hit up his old gf saying he missed her and wanted her to come to his new apartment. He also messaged another girl calling her "baby girl". I don't trust him anymore. No matter what I do he's grumpy & mean & always negative now.

So I'm 17. Single mom did drugs until I was 13 when she was told that if she kept going she would die by the doctors. So she wasn't there for me and my sister when she was on drugs and she really isn't here now. She works from one - 10 so I barely see her since I'm still in high school. She is selfish. Examples: she says she doesn't have any money to get me private lessons which I got a super deal for just $10 an hour for viola lessons. They are usually 80 and up. But she goes shopping for herself at macys whenever she feels like it.

Another thing, she is with a man that used to hit her way back when they were together before I was born. I don't like him. She says he's changed. Anyway, I've been super hungry today because there is absolutely no breakfast food in the house. She doesn't like when we eat dinner food for breakfast. He little boyfriend called and she went out to buy breakfast food that she cooked. She gave me the burnt toast By the way. -_-

Anyway, I'm not happy, its really hard for me to be but my counselor suggested trying to forgive her for everything. How do you forgive someone who just keeps f***in up? When I try to spend time with her, she makes other plans or invites her friends... Wtf? Should I just stop trying?im not affectionate and I don't like sharing my emotions but I'm trying to let her know how I feel. She says we try to make her feel guilty whenever I try to talk to her. Another year and I will be out of here and headed to college. So, thoughts?

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