Search Results: are more more than friends with benefits

not restricted to dating, could be which person you'd prefer to have as a friend. I don't know they're like contrasting characters. Tried to think up a lot of traits for each type of person, one's darker while the other is lighter in personality lol.
1) Mature, responsible, smart, has some form of minor mental illness (depression, anxiety, eating disorder, etc. which ever), dependable, mysterious, dark. Someone you can go to for a serious talk or if you need advice. Has more of a pokerface and is pessimistic. Prefers being alone. Independent, fully supports your choices, thinks more logically than emotionally. Awkward with emotions so they aren't the best at cheering you up or with their words when happy for you. Puts others first, makes decisions that will benefit their future and values family. More of a good girl.
2) Cheerful, bright, optimistic, smiles/laughs a lot, easy going and down to hang out anytime. Mentally healthy. Can't really be serious often, jokes around, really social. Not the smartest nor the most responsible. Reckless and impulsive but caring. Comfortable with emotions and able to react to your emotions more easily. Can be dependent on you sometimes. Can be selfish and often makes bad decisions. More of a bad girl.

Been sitting here wondering if I'm being too much of a prude and overthinking stuff. Normally I wouldn't even consider flings, one nights, etc. or even consider a guy I don't know too well; we know of each other but don't quite know each other. But am quite attracted to the guy, it's obvious he's into me, and well to quote a lot of people if everyone's into it well it's just a bit of fun. His reputation as a whole is so, so as some people say he's grand, others' won't quit referring to him as an ass, and a few other things that may just be jealousy speaking. Therein's my issue. I've got a dang good reputation around here and can just see if whatever be it a fling, friends with benefits, more than such, etc. got out people going wtf is/was she doing with him.