She Is Educated, Smart, Successful And Yet Perpetually Single. LOL!

[TheFlak38]

So this is an older video from 2014 which I found today through the youtube channel Think Before You Sleep and I had to come here and share with you the good laugh I got from this landwhale, as well as the comments section roasting her.

This is your usual fat, ugly feminist bragging about her PhD, full of entitlement, asking for the perfect husband when she is a 5 in the best case. Twenty seconds into the video and she mentions her PhD for the first, but not the only time.
Let's start with her list of what she was expecting from a man when she was younger.....

Yeah, good luck finding any man in your life especially now that you're also a post-wall chick, besides your attitude and weight.

First off, you walking burger, even if there was a man in this world, or shall we say in the universe, who fits all of your stupid criteria, what makes you think he would choose out of the entire female population of the planet Earth?

She wants the man to be taller than her.
At 3:13 in the video she says "I don't want a man to make feel any bigger than I already am."
She seriously BLAMES short men for her looks! It's not her fault for being a total LARDASS! No! Short men are to blame! Because if I go out for a walk with her with my 6'3'' height and being as thin as a toothpick, all of a sudden she will appear thinner than she actually isn't!
Listen to her, she is already panting just by standing and speaking with her own pace.

Second off, nobody gives a FUCK about your PhD. Maybe instead of trying to compete with men and show them what a tough guy with a vagina you are, you concentrated on things that actually attract men you wouldn't be single in your 30's in the first place. Leftists are getting orgasms with "education" and degrees.

After that she says how she wants the man to share the same political beliefs with her. You know....the same political beliefs that turn men into weak soy boys, destined to serve women like slaves. Women today are literally surrounded by male feminists and the best thing these boys can do is play the gay friend/therapist who will forever be in the friend-zone. The moment a real masculine man tells her to shut the fuck up and that it's over with feminism she starts using all those dumb terms that Leftists love to use at every given chance and make men to keep their distance in the first place because false rape accusations are a thing.

In 4:40 she complains how pop-culture on one hand pressures women to get married and on the other hand promotes single life for men. I'm sure it is the media that convince men to stay single and above all stay away from women like her. I mean, it's not like marriage has become a golden industry for the Welfare State, lawyers and women who benefit from the work of men, pushing them closer to suicide.

Ladies you can cry and complain as much as you want, no rational man gets married today. The only men who choose marriage are those too insecure and afraid to stay single. And since they are a turn-off anyway they soon get dumped and have their lives ruined by you and the divorce courts that favor women in almost every case. It doesn't matter wether you're a slut or a virgin. More and more men refuse to take any responsibility for your happiness because in the end they are the ones who lose it all.

5:50 is the only part I agree with her. This is all true and it applies to both men and women. I too am tired of getting those cliche questions, so most times I just give a stupid answer for fun.
-"How are you still single?"

-"I'm not single. I'm self-partnered just like my idol, Emma Watson."

9:00 she complains that married people don't want to hang out with her.
"We can still be friends."
NO WE CAN'T YOU FAT C**T! A married man doesn't need your friendship! Not even a single man! He has his bros for that! And a married man would never allow his wife to hang out with a loser like yourself so you can deceive her with your stupid ideology!

10:30 she claims that her being single doesn't affect a man's life. Oh but it does! And she even says why! "You need to get a hobby." I do. Not just one. I have many hobbies exactly because I stay single, refusing to hang out and hook up with women like yourself.

And in the end after bragging again about being dynamic, independent, successful she talks about a missing puzzle in her life. But I found it! Here it is...........

[latin4king]

Phd lmfao. That a turn off id say you should stop making youtube videos and use some meth for about 2 weeks straight everyday and loose about 35 pounds. Then throw all you're successful goals away cause 2019 and 2020 and so on you might just want to tie a noose and hang youreself in a video tbh bitch. Haha i agree with theflak38.

[Texaskid1]

I have seen the video before. Legend has it that she lives with a bunch of cats.

[Bman4907]

Villagers in neighboring towns can hear the faint cry of her yelling at the cats, "let me love you damn it."

[Anonymous]

I didn't watch the video because I've seen it all before. I didn't read most of what you wrote because I aught enough of it to know you sound as bitter and sexist as most feminists.

I will just say that this woman is a great example of how women today seem to have no idea what men want in a woman. She brags about her PhD as if she thinks that's a turn on for guys. It's not, in fact it's a turn off to most of us because it tells us what her priorities in life probably are, and being a good mother and wife is not going to be at the top of her list. And no, ladies... we are not intimidated by her. That's just not the issue. Most men are simply not attracted to women like that.

[R_Cakes91]

But why would a woman want a guy who doesn’t value her success in her career? Not everyone wants children and that’s totally valid. Also, being educated doesn’t mean you’d be a bad mother, that’s kind of an oxymoron

[TheFlak38]

@R_Cakes91 hahahaha the triggered feminist has been throwing temper tantrums all night long!
Your shaming tactics have no effect anymore unless we talk about your army white knight orbiters.
For centuries have been pressured to marry your lazy asses and then go to war and spill their guts for your resources. Men who were refusing to get married or go to war were receiving the same bullshit shaming language you give us today, with the difference that men do not give a shit anymore. If you want to see how the future looks like take a look at Japan. Where women already pay men just to have some male company during their day out. Serves you bitches well. Enjoy your 15 cats and PhD.

[R_Cakes91]

@TheFlak38 you’re the one who is making these huge responses to people who don’t give a shit. Seriously, don’t you have anything else to do besides stomping your feet at females all day long? Go get laid, you need it.

[TheFlak38]

@R_Cakes91 Do not call the shots on me lass, ok? Do that with your cuck boyfriend. If I like to entertain myself with your stupidity on gag then I will do it. I yawn at your female shaming tactics.

[R_Cakes91]

Shut the fuck up. You sound like a damn idiot.

[Opinion Owner]

@R_Cakes91 It's certainly her prerogative to not want a man who doesn't value her success and career, and there's nothing wrong with that. But that's really beside the point here.

The point is that women like her are unattractive to most men, and most women seem unaware of that fact. They think men "should" be attracted to them and they will eventually come around. That's not going to happen because human attraction is coded in our DNA.

The things that attract men to women are the same today as they have always been, things that make a woman a good mate and mother. Men have never been attracted to women who make good providers and they never will.

[nella965]

@Opinion Owner, I never heard of a man who didn't like a smart, educated lady. Actually every man I've dated liked a woman who was intelligent and successful. The last guy I went out with even expected me to work a career even after having kids. He wanted a woman with the best genes to pass on. He wanted intelligent successful kids.

[nella965]

The standards of a man reflect himself. Unsuccessful men date other unsuccessful women. Successful men date other successful woman. there's no way a brilliant educated doctor will marry a stupid woman without much of an education.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 You've heard of a man who didn't like a smart, educated lady? You must live under a rock because the internet is literally saturated with stories and opinions from educated, successful woman about how badly they struggle to find a man who is interested in them. Most of them get it wrong, of course.

To be clear, men do love smart women. And education is fine as well, but it's NOT what men are most interested in when looking for a mate, and it actually can be an issue as in the case of the woman in the video because it is a clear indication of her life priorities. Ultimately men want a woman who has the traits that make for a good mother, lover and wife... NOT at good provider. That's what women want, not men.

For example, the majority of the most successful and desirable men, who can get pretty much any woman they want, are married to stay-at-home wives.

qz.com/.../

[Opinion Owner]

*never

[nella965]

@Opinion Owner, I am currently a recent college grad doing a shitty entry level job trying to date a lawyer in NYC. None of them even want to date me due to my low status. So don't tell me that they will just date anyone including a maid.

[nella965]

@Opinion Owner, And statistics have shown that people tend to marry those of their own kind. Smart and educated tend to marry other smart educated people. Dumb people tend to marry dumb people. Ghetto people marry ghetto people. Generally people tend to be attracted to those that are similar to them. People tend to be attracted to those who they have things in common with.
There are exceptions but its not the rule.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 Yes, people tend to date and marry people like themselves. That means people who share their values, like family and relationships. It's an indisputable fact that women who are very well educated and successful in their careers struggle to find men who are interested in a serious relationship with them. The reason for that is men are not attracted to the same things in women that women are attracted to in men, and men are not ATTRACTED to the traits that make a person a good provider the way women are. It's a matter of attraction

Now, it's true that it is an economic reality for most couples today that both will need to work, so many men will look past their lack of attraction to a woman for those reasons. If we could remove the economic pressures people face today, which would allow men to focus more on the types of women they are truly attracted to, there would be far fewer men seeking women who prioritize career so highly. And that is exactly what we see in the lives of the highest earning men in the world, as described in the link I provided earlier.

Smart and classy women are always more desirable, but that does not necessarily say anything about their life priories and values, despite what women like you seem to believe.

[nella965]

@Opinion Owner, I think that your mindset is everywhere else but NYC. I live in NYC, and I guarantee you that people are not like this. High profile men marry high profile women. I also have a couple of guy friends who go after women who are brilliant at math and science. I have many female doctor friends and they ALL ARE MARRIED.
Besides that, I have seen so many men who go CRAZY gaga over millionaire LorI Greiner from the show, shark tank. There are many men out there who love hot sugar mamas. Don't assume that men don't marry for money.

Realize that there are many men out there who admire successful women. I have never seen a female executive or a female millionaire that isn't married. What your mindset is, is just really your point of view. Not all men think the same way.

[nella965]

@Opinion Owner,
But the funny thing is: I am one of the most ambitious women that you will ever meet. One who learns quickly, full of wisdom, humble, kind, caring, nurturing, one of the kindest and most loyal souls you will ever meet. Everyone can say I am the sweetest, kindest lady all over town.

Its truly a sad thing where men assume that all ambitious women cannot be great mothers or good wives. Being a great mother and wife is NOT about staying home 24/7 , cooking 3 meals a day, helping your kids shower, reading them stories.

Being a great mother is someone who has wisdom, life experience, know what it takes to survive in the real world so she can prepare her children for their future careers, someone who knows how to create opportunities for their children, be educated enough so she can tutor her children academically, someone who is a great communicator with adept emotional intelligence at sensing a child's needs without them asking for it. She has to understand what her kids need to succeed at every grade level or how to get into the best colleges. All of this cannot be done if she never had an education, never held a career, never done anything in life.

A great mother is also a woman who knows how to pick the right father figure for her child. A decent woman doesn't want a man who tells his daughter that she cannot pursue any passions in life but her only sole purpose is to fulfill her husband's wishes.

You cannot underestimate what an accomplished woman has to offer to her children.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 Firstly, there are exceptions in everything, and there are certainly men who are drawn to high power women, and there is nothing wrong with that. But the majority are not, even if they compromise in other important areas for economic reasons.

Secondly, there is some truth in much of what you said about what makes a good mother. All those things are valuable, but what children need most, by far, is a mother who is there for them, loving and teaching them, especially during their younger years. A mother who highers out the job of raising her children to someone who could never love and teach them the way a real parent can, for the majority of five days every week, is NOT what children need most. Justifying that choice with excuses about other things they can buy their child is just that... justification for an otherwise less-than-ideal childhood for her kids.

There are some women who do a very good job of mothering during the time they are actually with their children, but it does not make up for the quality time children really need and deserve from their mothers. Given the opportunity, every man who cares about his children wants that for them, and that is a very significant factor in their attraction to women, whether conscious or subconscious. The things men are attracted to in women are no different today than they were in the distant past because it is instinctive. It's part of our DNA.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 By the way, lest you think I'm an unsuccessful, insecure beta male, as you said about QA, I am very well educated, with two degrees, one being a masters, and my salary puts me already in the 95th percentile of Americans. I am married to a very smart and classy woman who shares my values. I would never marry a woman who felt good about hiring out the job of raising our children. And as a man who has plenty of conversations about this topic with other men, I can tell you most of them see things the way I do. But not all of them are as fortunate in their ability to fully support a wife and children when those children need a mother most, although most of them would if they could. And they are, of course, not attracted to driven career women. Those women may be able to find a mate, but they will often struggle in that quest for all the reasons I've outlined here.

[nella965]

You're the type of guy that no woman (who respects herself will ever marry.) Any smart, decent person can tell that you're just an insecure male, most likely unsuccessful, not very educated, most likely even unattractive. You feel totally intimidated by the woman in the video because you are jealous that you are nothing like her. There's nothing wrong with a woman with a PHD. Only insecure, beta males would prefer to marry a stupid woman over a smart one. Smart women with phd usually end up marrying investment bankers, lawyers, physicians, college professors. Not uneducated, low self esteem little pricks like you. Unsuccessful people marry other unsuccessful people. Go marry an uneducated maid or a preschool teacher.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

"Only insecure, beta males would prefer to marry a stupid woman over a smart one."
Well she got a PHD in history... that's pretty stupid.

[nella965]

@AllThatSweetJazz Nobody but only dumb folks would hate on smart people and show respect to stupid people. Only you would respect a dumb person over a smart one.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

But that begs the question: What is smart?
There are a wide range of mental faculties that can be effective enough to allow a person to be considered "smart."
Is it just your education?
I think you can put the "smart" label on someone good at math, but that far from makes them immune to being hated or loved. You could also attach the label of "smart" to a uneducated and talented comedian. They both get the label yet people probably appreciate the comedian more.
Furthermore, you can be "educated" but not "smart." And I would say it's the difference between having a brain full of facts and the intellect to apply those facts.

So it's clearly not "education."

Is it "intellect?"
Problem solving and creative application of ideas? Must it take a strict logical argumentation to be intellectual? Some people might delineate that with "wisdom" as well. Where does the genius musician fit in or the profound speaker?

A PHD in history doesn't entitle her to anything, sorry.
Only dumb people fawn over anyone just because they had a PHD. There's more to humans than that.

[nella965]

@AllThatSweetJazz I didn't even read your bull crap. Of course a low self esteem person like you wouldn't understand the definition of intelligence. You question it cuz you know you don't have it yourself.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

It's utterly stereotypical that a moron can't even stipulate the terms of a discussion, let alone engage philosophically. Just the kind of academic rigor I'd expect from someone with a degree in the humanities.

[NearlyNapping]

Perpetually single.

A general rule that apllies to a lot of things is that if something bad happens once or twice, it might be bad luck. It it happens time and time again, then the problem is you.

If someone is perpetually single, then they need to figure out why and change something. They can't do that by constantly pointing their finger everywhere else.

The first thing this woman needs to figure out is that her PhD means virtually nothing. The fact that she keeps referring to it might be a big reason for being single. I personally would stay the hell away from anyone who feels the need bring up their advanced degree like that. This goes for male or female, whether it's about a relationship or just friendship.

[D_Bone_Steak]

So in detail that I didn't even need to watch the video. Great take.

I liked the point, which I've been stating for years, a man that actually meets a long list of criteria... isn't going to waste his time on a fuggly woman that doesn't meet half of her own list halfway. There's women out there that are better looking and less abrasive, and will demand much less of me, why would I go for her at all? She'll enjoy her cats and my wife will enjoy children.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I really wish the chick that gives me that thumbs down would explain her reasoning... but they never do.

I think those people hate the assertion, but know it's true. Emotional... feelz over realz.

[slatyb]

They don't give you a reason because it is physically dangerous for women to tell men why they were rejected. Some guys get very ugly if a woman tells them why they aren't attractive. Women quickly learn to refuse with generalities or half-truths, like "I'm not looking to date right now (but I will be as soon as you go away)"

[D_Bone_Steak]

Physically dangerous here online where can choose to be anon? right. I agree that could be their train of thought... but it still doesn't make sense, which would lead me to conclude they're illogical.

Lol, I so agree with the 'refuse with generalities part though.' The very scenario you gave is something I've seen over and over. Masters of double speak and excusing things away if cornered on any point of contention.

[D_Bone_Steak]

After getting my second pink thumbs down... I still don't have a reason. I think they just don't like it... that if the perfect man did step into the room, he wouldn't waste his time with them.

But I'm just a man... can over look if she's not as educated or makes at least as much money as I. These particular ladies understand I just wouldn't understand lolz sorry. I'm not the perfect man and I think I would simply not bother either... probably why I have my own family and kids, and they have their cats.

[slatyb]

This is not a dating site.

[slatyb]

Why would any woman here want to waste time giving you a reason?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Because it's not a dating site, it's an opinion site. If they dislike my opinion... well they could change if they had a good reason.

But no reasons. Meh.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I guess I'm just brain storming an idea for a site, question an answers type like this one or yahoo answers, where a dislike could be given but would require an anonymous reason for the dislike.

Sound like a cool idea.

[sean1234]

I think I'll just copy and paste this lol...

The problem is that woman like that are generally way to busy to start a family and by the time they aren't, they are to old or almost to old to have kids.
This is her reality as far as I'm concerned...

[SkipStop]

I remember that video. Thank you for sharing. Yeah, she is the kind of man-hating woman who blames her own problems on men. She thinks she's perfect and would make the best long-term partner. Unfortunately for her, she won't learn her lesson and her fuel of hate will continue to burn.

[cavmanier]

The question to me is why you care. Just don't date her. Plenty of guys like big women but yes I guess it's hard to find what she wants because it isn't common. I think you're paying attention to this way too much and stressing yourself out. Just focus on yourself.

[Robertcw]

She's smart enough for a PhD but not smart enough to realize half the things on her list are financial liabilities that no smart guy who was capable of getting a PhD himself would ever own? 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Okay then...

[Avicenna]

Yeah, well, she's far from the only woman with unrealistic expectations.

[derek2017]

Girls who disagree with this mytake I have an IQ of 152 and I agree with this guy!! :-)

[NerdInDenial]

I remember watching that woman and started laughing.

[NatalieKeller95]

being smart puts you at a disadvantage, society values the boaster over the brilliant, this even applies in dating

[cloud9vortex1234]

No, not really, the brilliant are the ones who end up running things and employing the masses. They also fire the boasters when he/she can't walk the walk.

[Liam_Hayden]

Moral of the story: Have absurd standard, live alone with cats.

[R_Cakes91]

So... where’s your ph. d?

[R_Cakes91]

Dude, she is not asking for much. Are you threatened by women like this? Because you sound like a sad little man who can’t accept that a woman might be more successful than himself. Get over yourself and grow the fuck up.

[TheFlak38]

Trigerred feminist detected. Yes, I am so afraid! I am afraid of the miserable, sad, cute man with a vagina who can't achieve anything her life unless the entire State is supporting her interests with laws specially designed to benefit her! Im literally shaking by the way she is waving that PhD in front of my face although she got it just for reading books assigned to her by her marxist school teachers!

[R_Cakes91]

Why do you make this YOUR problem? That’s my point.

[R_Cakes91]

Like why does a successful woman bother you?

[TheFlak38]

where is the success?

[R_Cakes91]

Her great job and 10+ years old college. Where is your success? Get out of your mama’s basement today?

[R_Cakes91]

Or are you one of those dudes who thinks the only thing women are good for is sex, reproducing, cooking, and cleaning? If so please say so so I can’t ignore you forever

[TheFlak38]

Unlike this sad depressed fat post-wall femcel , I and every other man who respects himself, does not throw his resume at everyones face, neither will I do it to you just to deflect your stupid shaming tactics, especially in a time when woke feminists like yourself love to dox men and have them kicked out of their job. You wouldn't even lose your sleep over it. Typical female behaviour. Also, you're 27 years old and already your looks are fading away. Which is why you get so triggered trying to defend an entitled land whale asking for the perfect man although she has nothing of value to put on the table.

[TheFlak38]

And yes, women are good only for sex today. And only some of them. You have no other value. All you got is a vagina. Thats all it is.

[R_Cakes91]

Wow... some got their feelings hurt a while ago.

[R_Cakes91]

Someone*

[R_Cakes91]

So what you asking for in a woman? by the way you’re assuming many things about me that are not true. Try again, pumpkin.

[Bluemax]

I'm curious, R_Cakes, why do *you* think she's single?

[R_Cakes91]

@Bluemax It could be for any number of reasons. She could have a horrible personality. Who the fuck knows, people ALWAYS leave important information out of their agenda to look better.

The thing of it is that the guy posting this is CLEARLY intimidated by her, otherwise, this post would not exist.

I was single for many years even though I had a high education, a great career (park ranger), I love to backpack, surf, ski, and I'm Greek and own land over in the motherland. Yet, I noticed that most guys I was interested in were marrying women had NO credentials. It made me wonder why. Do guys go for women less successful to make themselves feel better?

I am now in a relationship with an amazing man who encourages me to go after what I want. We are very happy and planning our future.

[Bluemax]

"The thing of it is that the guy posting this is CLEARLY intimidated by her, otherwise, this post would not exist."

Yeah, I get that. That's why I'm not addressing him.

I also understand that it could be for a number of reasons, many of which we cannot know. However, it doesn't seem to me that she has a bad personality. She seems kinda funny and clever to me. Mind you, I freely acknowledge that it's impossible to know for sure based on one vid.

My first inclination is to think that perhaps she can improve her appearance. It would perhaps broaden the number of men initially attracted to her. What do you think?

[R_Cakes91]

Yeah I get that. It would broaden her range but a woman who is as highly educated as her don’t typically think about being pretty as much primarily because they have other things to think about. But I totally get it. She seems like a really nice woman and I totally understand where she is coming from. I have felt this way before too.

[nella965]

@R_Cakes91, Go talk to these low self esteem , beta men in real life. They would never dare to hate on her in public.

[AynonOMouse]

I don't care about her phd. I'd rather have one of those cute skinny girls that works at Taco Bell and was into gaming.
Interest in gaming > than a degree for a woman when it comes to dating.

[nella965]

Your standards reflect who you are. Investment bankers, physicians, surgeons, lawyers, rich folks very much prefer a woman with a phd.

[Dchrls78104]

Is she beautiful? Is she pleasant, humble, loyal, faithful, or respectful? Is she even mature or a lady? For me, those are the questions that need answering.

[llcanon]

see what she is describing is a alpha female , thinks way more highly of herself than what reality tells us and i refer to these kind of women as true Jagoffs and after hanging out with such a women it puts a bad taste in ones mouth.

[UnicornLobotomy]

Is she attractive though? If she is, what is her age? There you will find your answer... she won't commit.

[Anonymous]

She has a BA in women's studies. This was a big surprise.

[Anonymous]

how long has she been single? or last time she had a BF?