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jerry is 24 years old. He graduated high school, and had a 3.2 GPA, he graduated college and had a A in every single class. He's 95 thousand dollars in student loan debt. When Jerry went out to get a job thHe was offered a job at Walmart paying 8 dollars an hour. Jerry was angry, depressed and hated his life, He then meets Dustin who's 21.


Dustin never graduated high school or college yet he makes 25 dollars an hour working with computer systems. Dustin tells Jerry that he likes to wear panties, makeup and talks about his love for computers, Jerry tells Dustin his hair looks like shit, he looks like a drug addict, no girls like him and he needs to wear a hat in public, he also added that he's full of himself and anyone can work on computers. Dustin giggled and said, well why are you a cashier then? jerry walks off.

A few hours later, Jerry goes into the bathroom and he hears Dustin grunting, moaning and jerking off in the stall, Jerry's blood boils and he screams at Dustin to shut up. Dustin gets scared and says sorry. Jerry tells Dustin he's a disgrace to his family and Dustin nearly tears up. Jerry gets more information on Dustin's personal life, calls him worthless, unwanted, starts rumors about him and makes Dustin break down and sob uncontrollably in front of people. Jerry gets fired.

When Jerry gets home, he's even more angry when his parents tell him they can't help pay off his student payments anymore. Jerry tells his sick, old mother, I don't care if you die, go die already! And told his dad to fuck off, went upstairs and slammed the door. Jerry goes on Facebook and sees his old friend who never went to college get married, have a great paying job, and is happy. Jerry cries, screams and burns his bible.

I've been in a bad situation for the past few years having a LDR with my boyfirend. It really sucks and we are on the verge of breaking up.

Its so hard and mentally challenging that I've cried my self to sleep for the past few days.

There's some times that I hate my self for even thinking of wanting to break up or take a break with him.

I only have 2 years left in this country before I return. But it's already been 3 years and we only meet 3 to 4 times a year. I'm afraid that he'll change because we don't meet as often and in the end we can't find that love we once had.

I don't want to stop my studying half way through my bachelor in medicine and surgery but I also don't want to loose him.

I'm flying back to the UK next week with out telling my parents because I just want to focus my time with him and find out if we should stay together. I haven't booked a ticket back because I don't know if I'll be staying a for a few days or just one.

What ever the outcome. I probably won't be satisfied with either one. This is probably the lowest point of my life.

Don't worry. No suicidal tendencies yet...

I hope it will all be ok in the end.

For now. I only can hold on till I fly back home and face my fears or dreams.

Thanks for reading. Needed a place to let put some steam.

Not that it matters 100% but what do you think I should do?

My boyfriend and I been dating for over a year
He has told me about his past several times
- his parents gave him up to his grandparents when he was 2 coz they were broke and his dad is an alcoholic and abusive towards the mother
- his grandparents took care of him till he was 13 (they were loving towards him, fed and raised him and they were wealthy)
- when he was 13, his parents wanted to go australia (here) so they took him and his younger brother
- while he was living with his parents and younger brother, he saw the abuse. His father smokes and drinks everyday and beats up his mother and my boyfriend everyday
- when he was 18, he got kicked out by his dad for protecting his mother from the abuse
- ever since then, he has been on his own (finding a job, paying his own bills, paying for his own food, etc) and he told me he has moved to many places and has encountered so many fucked up people in his life
- he reconnected with his family 2 years ago, but still has the resentment towards them
- he tells me that he still hates his family for what they did to him (his dad beating beating him up and his mum not protecting him) but still contacts them sometimes when they contact him first
- few weeks ago, he decided to let me meet his parents for the first time
So anyway, from all this.. do you think he will be abusive in the future?
He never physically abused me (hit me, etc)
He does have bad temper (like me) though
But he's more patient than me
Oh and he's 27 now
So he's been living on his own and doing his own stuff for over 9 years
Would it still affect him?