Search Results: play hard to get

Does he see me as a friend or a lover?

I work with a guy and over time we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk a lot. Our first convo we talked about how we’re both in college and he told me that i spoke very well so I’d be...

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

Why does it seem like most girls I talk to play hard to get? I don’t understand the point of the game? And why is this so common?

I don’t mean to rant but it’s like at least half of women I talk to do this and it’s really not cute or entertaining at all. There is really not many things that turn me off more than this. It’s honestly one of the most...

Gangactivities911

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Is he slowly trying to make a move?

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Flirting

Two friends having a conversation or does it seem like more?

I work with this guy and over time we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk a lot. Our first convo we talked about how we’re both in college and he told me that i spoke very well so I’d...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Sports

Should I start my hockey (HEAVY air-quotes😂) career, or take more time to develop my skills?

WhiteSteve

Master Age: 47

Long story short, I started learning to play hockey over the past couple of years, but really, I have only a year’s experience figuring the down time with the pandemic. Picked a

Long story short, I started learning to play hockey over the past couple of years, but really, I have only a year’s experience figuring the down time with the pandemic. Picked a terrible time to start, lmao.

I received an email today from a local adult hockey league advertising the upcoming winter/spring season. I didn’t sign up for a league in the fall, because I didn’t feel ready. I could play, but I don’t want to be bad, because I’m hard on myself for athletic failure, and more importantly, I don’t want to be a liability for the sake of my team. I’m getting better, but I’m still waiting to get fluid and automatic instead of clumsy and hesitant. I’ve changed my mentality to “take over the game” when I think I’m the best player on my team who’s on the ice, and I feel like I thrive in that scenario. But when I’m the third-or-lower of the five, I feel like I suck, haha. I’ve been playing at night recently with some new guys, and the first week, most of them were 55+, and I scored like six goals, one guy was calling me “Stevie Yzerman” after the former NHL great. The next week better players came and I had a TOUGH night lmao.

So this league…what makes me consider it is it’s supposedly for beginners, and there’s an evaluation game and then a draft party afterwards, and you get picked for a team. I just don’t know how tight they’d be about skill level, like would ringers be out there posing like novices? The other thing…I already know I can’t make the second game of the season because it’s my dad’s 90th birthday. I guess it’s just one game but I’d hate to miss it after committing to a team. The season ends April 6th, so I could wait til then…. but I’m so anxious to get started with competitive play. I’m all heart and grit out there, haha, but I’m still getting some of the finesse skills down. But against similarly skilled players, maybe it’s a good opportunity to play and get better, instead of just trying to keep up with way more experienced guys.

What do you think?

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Entertainment & Arts

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Greedier

Xper 6 Age: 20

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Guy's Behavior

Have I actually been flirting with him?

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Flirting

Why was this so embarrassing?

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Relationships

Long distance ex boyfriend told me if he moved to another country, he would have to cut me off?

We started being with my long distance boyfriend around February this year. At the beginning, everything was fine, then we started having unresolvable arguments until he broke up with me. After some months, we started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I have intense feelings for two women. No I didn't cheat. I did NOT want this to happen, as I am demisexual and monogamous. How do I choose one woman?

My ex left one too many times, and I met the new woman on a dating app while my ex and I were (and are still technically) broken up. My ex then later came crawling back to me (again) unexpectedly after trying to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he dropping hints that he wants to sleep with me?

I work with a guy and when I first met him he seemed kind of shy but eventually we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk to each other a lot. Our first convo we talked about how we’re...

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Girl's Behavior

Why do sexy women make it difficult on purpose to get to know them (read details)?

Through my years of dating, relationships, etc, the sexiest women were always either the hardest to get to know, played the most games, the craziest, or didn't know what they wanted. When I say a sexy woman, I mean...

Hairylegs222

Xper 7 Age: 39

Relationships

Have we been flirting?

I work with this guy and when I first met him he seemed kind of shy but eventually we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk to each other a lot. Our first convo we talked about how we’re...

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

Has there been flirting this whole time?

I work with this guy and when I first met him he seemed kind of standoffish but eventually we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk to each other a lot. Our first convo we talked about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Can y'all grow the f*** up and stop asking so many loaded questions?

What country do I look like I'm from? = Tell me I'm pretty. My friends call me ugly, am i? = Tell me I'm pretty. I'm with two guys at once, how do i stop? = Tell me i'm not a whore. This guy just stopped...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What country do I look like I'm from? = Tell me I'm pretty. My friends call me ugly, am i? = Tell me I'm pretty. I'm with two guys at once, how do i stop? = Tell me i'm not a

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Flirting

Is this technically cheating?

I work with a guy and when I first met him he seemed kind of standoffish but eventually we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we would talk to each other a lot. Our first convo we talked about how...

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

Dating

Is this cheating?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why woman play hard to get?

What is the purpose of doing this exactly, why girls play this game with guys they like?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why was this so embarrassing with him?

I work with this guy and when I first met him he seemed kind of standoffish but eventually we started talking a little more. We would have shifts where we both would talk to each other a lot. Our first convo we talked...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Playing hard to get?

The girl i like is playing hard to get, her friends tease her about me around her and she told me that we’ll take one day at a time and see what happens, so I think she is warming up to the idea about me, if she doesn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)