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I just fined myself keep contact my man after I found I like him so much ， but I have to admit , most of time, just like I chat to myself on message, I wonder if I sent too much msgs and make him feel bothered by me? Should the woman always send too many msgs to man in relationship in long distance relationship to keep him? Will him be scared away by me?

Im 26 and work in the service industry. I dont consider myself super attractive and lack confidence. Ill have my “cute” days and that is about it. However, I am told by friends, coworkers, and family that I rank higher on the hot scale then I feel... so why is it that only either unattractive or much older (and usually crude) men approach and hit on me? I can honestly say only one guy that was pretty attractive made any moves... he was also 8 shots deep and would probably fuck tree if it blew in his direction. But it raises the question! Am I just really unappealing? Do I scare people away? Do I have angry eyebrows/resting bitch face? Im very easy to talk to... Im just not a conversation instigator. I have high anxiety but I can usually hide it. I fail to make eye contact and will do things like play with my hair/phone/jewelry when Im nervous. Would it be my body language? And if so... why do such scummy men feel confident enough to cross the line? Do I come off as desperate or vunerable? Or am I just so accustomed to the bluntness that I fail to notice? Its not for an ego boost or reassurance. I am genuinely curious on the thought process.