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So normally I wouldn't post something like this, I don't really believe that I should need the validation of others to think that I am beautiful. However, I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years and I have been feeling really down on myself. Not because I think I screwed up, (I definitely made the right decision on that one) but because being in a relationship gave me a sense of security knowing that somebody loved me and the way I looked, and now I don't have that anymore. I constantly find myself sitting in front of the mirror picking apart every little flaw that I have. I have an hourglass shape and I am pretty proportionate, but I am overweight for my height (I am 5'1 and 115 pounds). most of that weight sits on my ass and I have stretch marks all over my upper thigh stopping right before my butt. I also have stretch marks I got in middle school on my boobs but those have gone away over time (That's what happens when you go from an A to a D in a year Cx). I have super chubby cheeks and a lot of times I get mistaken for a being much younger than I actually am because of it. My nose is HUGE and I am also starting to get a double chin because of staring down at my laptop gaming all day haha. I am a natural blonde but I dye my hair dark because I have naturally dark eyebrows and everyone always comments on it. All I guess I really need are some words of encouragement. And I am honestly tired of dyeing my hair. Do you think I look better as a blonde or brunette? Thanks a ton! (And sorry I took the Blonde picture when I was 16 the last time I was blonde which is why it looks younger.)

Basically what I'm trying to explain is that- everyone finds intelligence attractive (hopefully) but what kind of intelligence attracts you more? Which do you appreciate more or fine more interesting to discuss with? Somebody who is deep and reads between the lines- or somebody who knows a lot of facts and enjoys learning about current events in politics, etc. and such?

Once more- someone more deep could have a conversation on the topic of intuition, self improvement, the psychology and feeling of things.

someone more factual could have a conversation with facts, and opinions and debating with thing that they have learned. Weather it be politics, science, or social studies.

Really sorry if this is confusing to you! Honestly- I'm no good at explaining things:/

thank you for your opinions.

I am half Hispanic (Cuban) and half Caucasian (Irish)

if somebody looks white- are they? Because I am half white half Hispanic and look white except for when I have a dark tan. I have light eyes, huge thick dark hair, big eyebrows, I'm short, a little chunky, and I'm pale at the moment. I know I look white- but I'm half Hispanic- does that even make a difference at all?

Take Rihanna For example: you make say she is black even though she really isn't just black. She even has Irish and Barbadian background.

Also- I'm aware everyone is "mixed" with something. As in everyone has some nationality (s) in them. But I've always wondered if I classify as mixed?