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"Don't let a woman become your everything. A woman should complement you, but she should not define you. I love my girl, but if she were to leave me, my life would not crumble, I'd sulk for like a week, but I would barely miss a beat.

If she knows that you have your whole life in front of you whether she's with you or not, you will not have this problem. She will fight, she will kill herself trying to get herself to become your everything, and that's exactly where you want her to be, you'll get everything you want, sex, and everything else too. But once she does become the biggest thing in your life she'll get bored and start looking for another man to repeat the cycle with."

Lets say, arbitrarily, that you met another gagger of the opposite sex at your house. This is the 3rd time you've met and you've had a great time together so far. However, tragedy strikes and they broke their leg really badly. They are mentally sound and the relationship is positive, but they are just going through the cycle of 2 surgeries and healing.

They are from out of state 9 hours away and there are some logistical reasons it is better for them to stay with you. It is estimated they would be staying with you for 3 weeks but if something goes wrong, maybe more.

Would you take them in to your residence and help them (get to Dr., setup space for them to recover, make food, do laundry)? They can bath and clothe on their own and move around a little, but not much.

What would you do? Help them, send them home?
What compensation would you request?