Search Results: what does being too nice mean

Victor is 20 and an engineering major in college. He comes from a well established family, even went to a private school and such. He's a hard worker and a perfeccionist; he really puts effort into everything he does. He can be frat boy-ish sometimes -- he likes partying and takes it too far sometimes -- but he treats you amazingly, always being wonderfully nice and romantic. He respects you and treats you as an equal. He's really sociable and extroverted, and I mean REALLY. He has an overwhelming amount of friends. And he's told a few of them before that you were his 'dream girl'. He has ex issues though.

Chuck is 21 and sells furniture. Not that glamourous, but he's really hard working and honest. He's the quiet type, but after he gets comfortable around you, he's a very lighthearted and fun person. He's adventurous, it never gets boring with him. He's hot and gets your blood boiling, for better or worse -- he knows exactly where to put his hands, but your fights aren't pretty. He never holds grudges, but he won't ever talk about feelings. His family is his #1 priority, always; he has a baby sister, who he loves more than anything. He's kinda scared of commitment and has a certain reputation when it comes to girls.

This guy and I have a complicated past with me being infatuated with him in 2012, him not reciprocating and rejecting me super hard; awkward and uncomfortable disconnect for 1-2 years, then in 2015 he got some interest in me, but wouldn't date me cause he wasn't infatuated (but was fine with a sexual relation and lost his vcard to me), all thrill and we stopped talking when our mutual friends stopped wanting to talk to me on a regular basis.

I got a new job, new friends, and a boyfriend so i stopped caring, but sometimes would just talk to him if I had some sort of favor to ask or something among the sort. We don't really talk otherwise (but he is always super happy, responsive and initiative when I do write him!)

Recently broke up with my boyfriend, my parent died and everything has gone straight to hell hah.

Recently had a convo about him helping me with some written work which he agreed to. It was late at the point and after the work relate stuff convo went as follows:

Him: "Look I really wanna ask you how you are and stuff, but I'm so so tired"

Me: "Hah, I'm fine with you not asking. It can be so, so tiring when everyone does which has seem to be the case lately" (Cause my parent died... didn't tell him.)

Him: "No I mean it. It means I'm not apathetic about your reality. So don't worry, I don't care about the standard "hows it going with work"

Me: "I know, but there's no need. I appreciate you giving off some of your time for me a whole lot! I know time isn't free, so really appreciate you sharing!"

Him: "I really don't mind! Just wanted you to know I'm not just having writing-bones in my body :)"

Me: "And that's why i appreciate your existence so muxh! Goodnight when you get there! "

Him:" You too!"

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I'm just curious how to read this guy... We only really talk every now and then every few monthes when I initiate... What do you gather from this?