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[Please don't vote until you've actually read the whole thing]

My theory is this. You take two attractive dudes the "shy" looking shy guy
and the more "confident LOOKING" guy who is also just as shy

The first guy will have easier time than the second because neither of them will EVER ask a girl out cause they're too shy. So they have to wait for girls to ask them out. Many girls will think the first guy likes them and that's he's too shy too approach cause he looks like a shy guy. So confident girls will ask him out themselves. With the second guy even confident girls won't ask him out because they assume he's not shy and if he isn't asking them out it must mean he's not interested in the slightest and thus won't bother because they're certain the guy will reject her. However, internally this guy could very well have the hugest crush on that girl who decided to believe he isn't attracted to her.

What do you think?

(And yes this is me asking girls who do occasionally ask guys out. Don't be afraid to ask out even the non shy looking guys. They are just as capable as being shy as the shyer looking ones. I promise you)

Okay so there's been a few girls with this situation with me, it mainly occurs at the gym with like 3 to 5 girls, I'm pretty sure their NOT! attracted to me, (but I could be wrong. Anyway they come in and I might glance or at them like once or twice but it's ususlly for the workouts their doing, I assume they all think I'm attracted to them so I don't look too long, it always feels like their avoiding me. Like avoid verbal contact and eye contact. Personally I think their stupid and arrogant and I think they assume every guy likes them. 😳🙄😠😤😒 that's so lame! Anyway cuz females lose bonus points fast when they walk around acting like they can get any guy, and sad! , I'm curious do you avoid eye contact with a lot of guys to avoid sending the wrong signals? Or do you not really care?