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My male coworker and I had feelings for each other. We never met by ourselves. Earlier this year, I finally confessed to him. he admitted too and said he can see us together but it’s difficult as he is in complicated relationship. I stepped away. Its been 6 months. I recently heard him telling that he has bought a place for himself. He was living with his girlfriend before. He hasn’t mentioned about breaking up though.

Now, he asks me questions which seem unnecessary. For example, Last week, I went to conference with another male colleague to another city and he asked if we went out together there. Before leaving for conference, he had asked if the other guy and I are staying at the same hotel.
I want to know why he seems so curious now and asks me all these questions. Please help.

My boyfriend is a broke guy. He said to me that he has to go to another city to work.
Lately, someone called me and asked who am I and how I am related to this guy. She said
she wants to know the truth. She said my man is living on her rented condo together with her friends (girls). I told her she's my boyfriend. I am beginning to ask her if she has a relationship with my boyfriend
and if they sex. She denied to me and said No, we are just friends. Your boyfriend didn't say to
me that he has a girlfriend. And this girl blocked me.

I become so mad at that time and confronted my boyfriend. He said she just a good friend who
helps him. I got confused because this girl said that my boyfriend just sleeps on the sofa
while she and her friends sleeps on the bed. But according to my boyfriend too, he sleeps
on the bed with the 4 other girls. I am confused which is the truth. I wonder at first why my boyfriend lied to me that he is staying with a group of guys. when in facts these are girls! Why he lied? And also why the other girl lied?

Now my question is, should I believe that they are just friends or there is something wrong?

I have made multiple multiple questions about this situation and I just want to put a final end on getting peoples opinions opinions on it. It will really help me.
- I have known this laid back guy for 1.5 years we met online
- at the beginning things were good, we were flirting/ making sexual jokes (I went along with it)
- I was hesitant to meet him because I thought he wanted sex, I lead him on for awhile when it came to meeting up
- he gave me multiple chances with giving things a try
- we have argued a lot through out
- on our first date, he paid, it was quiet, got to know him a bit, made out with him. After our first date his answers on how it went was vague.
- after our first date shortly after I found out he hooked up with a girl, he told me he thought I wasn't serious.
- he asked me randomly to be his girlfriend in the summer time and we kind of left it.
- we tried to give things a go and then I got cold feet.
- when we weren't talking and i was going out with a guy he messaged me asking how my "bf" was
- we talked a lot about our past and how he told me he wanted to be with me and that he liked me. I told him the same. He told me a couple times he wanted to move on but I wanted him to give me one last chance. Anyways we went on our second date, I paid, got no thank you. We had nothing in common. We did make things official before our second date. After our second date he said it was fun, but he felt nothing.. ( he did told me he was in the mood during our date) He then told me after that we just went on 2 dates, that I was weird etc..