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Guys, have you ever labeled an ex as crazy because it was easier than admitting that you played her, lead her on or didn't wunna take responsibility for any part of the down fall of your relationship with her?

Ladies, you often hear guys saying how they have a crazy ex, but their the one's attracting them! Bad Boys in particular like to play mind games to the point that a perfectly sane woman is driven mad -- and then doesn't want to admit that he damaged her in such a way that she may or may not have acted out.

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BACK GROUND STORY: Recently I found out that my ex called me crazy and I'm a little taken back by that statement. No one has ever called me "crazy" before + it hurts my feelings! After all the stuff this guy put me through mentally, emotionally and physically, leading me on, using me, taking advantage of my generosity the end result is a break up with no closure and him labeling me as crazy. I really had to think twice about that statement because "CRAZY" does not describe me AT ALL, which is why it hurts my feelings! I feel like the only reason why he said that is because he doesn't wunna take responsibility for treating me poorly and being a douche bag! It's easier for him to act innocent once he got all he wanted out of me and then call me crazy when he tricked me into believing he was emotionally available and then when I am all ready to fall in love he's PURPOSELY turned off his emotions so he feels nothing for me. Does ANYBODY know where I'm coming from?

Looks like I'm an idiot.

I've been in this relationship for three and a half years now. We'll call my boyfriend A. We are happy. Always been best friends, always told the truth to each other, never had to lie.
But this guy came. Let's call him R. R and A work in the same office.
R and I got to talk on new year's eve and that was when somthing clicked.
We talked a few days after new year's eve during my nightshift (talked all night) ended up sexting, talking about life and eventually going to his place in the morning when my shift ended because I was feeling guilty.(see? Told you I was an idiot) but nothing happened. Not even a kiss.
We continued to talk. He gets me excited, giddy, butterflyes. R is the bad boy. Like real bad boy with scars, tattoos, real life gangster like you see in the movies with italian mafia (we are a latin country fyi-not important).
A is the perfect boyfriend. Caring, loving, gentle, and all that jazz. He even know what i'm doing with R and told me to do whatever makes me happy, regardless of his feelings. And it breaks my heart.

The problem is the next: all my life i've been attracted by R's type. The player, the dangerous type, the one who has all the girls. Why? Don't know. Me and R kissed one time after a short date. And it was brief. Since then he's been more responsive.
But I don't want to cheat on A because I believe that I still love him...
R is seeing several other girls and isn't afraid of admitting it.
One more thing. All this thing started from my ambition of making him fall for me. He is a guy who doesn't care for others and doesn't love. I wanted to make him fall for me. The way he talk to me is the same he talk to the others. I want to make him fall in love so I can move on and be happy with my boyfriend. Also, R. Made things clear. He wants to have sex with me. And that turns me on. Feel free to tell me how stupid I am.

I just had to get that out of my system and ask for advice. Please help.

Thank you!

Two Bestfriends.. D (Boy) B (Girl)
1) "D" and "B" go out for a last minute dinner to Olive Garden before he has to go back to work for a night shift (ends up late)?
2) "D" goes over "B's" house every weekend to watch movies and make cake or eat dinner and let's her lay down on him and they fall asleep together on the couch or in her bed?
3) "D" goes over "B's" house after being with his friends and stays there till 1-2AM
4) "D" has "B" come over his house to meet his family and have a goodbye dinner for him?
5) "D" and "B" act like a couple, they flirt and everything a couple does besides the sexual stuff?
6) "D" has "B" take out all his ingrown hairs from his neck and pops his pimples and "D" farts infront of "B" (maybe that's a little to much).. "B" says she enjoys it and has no problem with it though..
7) "D" wants "B" to write him letters constantly while he's in BCT and go to his graduation?
8) "D" says he love's her and has hinted that he likes her and has leaned in. But "B" doesn't realize he does all of this till a friend tells her.